Yup that is it in a nutshell . Sadly the only nut is you .Apparently not. You don't see LGBTQRSTUVWXYZ people pissing and moaning about all the thousands of movies, TV programmes, advertising, magazines, books, and other media that contstantly depict heterosexuality.
But apparently in Floriduh, one mention of "gay" in a classroom and all the kids'll suddenly start loving show tunes.