Not eating fast food isn't hard. Just eating healthy even at home can be. Depends on the type of body you have and your metabolism. It must depend on that. I've cut back on everything. I haven't eaten more than 3 desserts in 3 months. I avoid things like cheese and hamburger. I lost 21 pounds and in going without my salad lunch for 3 days in a row, I gained back one pound. I've eaten fries with a meal once in the past few months, I don't eat butter or margerine or sugar. (added sugar). I'm not eating in the evening. I'm not exercising but - I'm not sitting. I'm beginning to think that the only way I'll really lose weight is to quit eating all together. It's discouraging. I felt so good about what I did lose but then a two week standstill and then a one pound gain! I'm not quitting but I'm not sure what it's going to do. Wonder what would happen if I liked beer!!!
Everyone's body is different, no one can tell anyone else how to eat to keep them at the right weight, each
person has to know 'themselves' and go from there.
What I do know is, one shouldn't dislike the process they have to go through to keep their body at a weight
which is comfortable and healthy. A person must become comfortable with their eating habits, and enjoy their
food. If you were a big eater, that caused you to become obese, then it will be a big adjustment to change
that way of life, it will have to be done very slowly, and a one pound weight gain is just a 'hint' to you
that you have done something different, and your body reacted. Keeping a normal weight and a healthy body
is an everyday process, for the rest of your life,and should be enjoyable.
I don't know why you can't eat small amounts of butter/margarine, and small amounts of sugar, each day.
If your meals are small and spread out throughout the day, you should be able to have something light
in the evening.
Fries are poison, and I must be more vigilant with my eating habits, and stop eating them alltogether,
but I'm down to once a week for fries, so that is good, I pick my day when I have them, usually with fish
and chips, then no fries at all for another week. There are things I have cut out all together, can't
even remember them now, because out of sight, out of mind after a while.
It seems you are being too strict on yourself, and not enjoying what your doing, so it will become tiring
and harder to do over time, which will tempt you to quit alltogether.
The 21lb weight loss is very good, and while losing weight, it is very normal to
level off for awhile, then continue losing again. Enjoy a treat once in awhile,
it's a reward, then back to routine again.