YOu can go ahead and define anything any way you want to if it makes you feel better, I've stated my position and obviously I'm not ashamed of it or I wouldn't advocate it. By your definitions if I suffer from the flu once a year, I'm an unhealthy person. If I have sex once a week, I'm a sex maniac.
If you have flu once a year, that means you have flu occasionally, you cannot claim that you never have flu. If you have sex once a week, you cannot claim that you abstain from sex.
That is what you are trying to do here. You support death penalty for some crimes, yet you claim that you oppose death penalty. You evidently have a problem with English language. Whenever they conduct opinion polls on death penalty, people like you are counted among supporters of death penalty, not opponents. But somehow you seem to be ashamed of your position.