Try a naturopathic or ayurvedic medicine. Or else google lots.Dear All , I need help whom so ever can
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Try a naturopathic or ayurvedic medicine. Or else google lots.Dear All , I need help whom so ever can
:roll:What if experts disagree with each other? After all, there were experts around in Galileo's time.Well, depends upon who you listen to, isn’t it? Those who disagree with experts always make that argument. Thus Fundamentalist Christians belittle the scientists when they claim that scientists are totally wrong and the world was created 5000 years ago in six days. Or eanassir condemned the scientists the other day, claiming that only spiritual beings can see ether, that scientists were somehow deficient for not being able to see or perceive ether.
Your argument isn’t much different. But when it comes to children, I would much rather listen to child experts, child psychologists, rather than rely on somebody’s personal opinion.
:roll:What if experts disagree with each other?
It says "Jakarta" under his avatar, fool. lmao
Good point. There must be a google equivalent in Jakarta, though, if it doesn't have google.Anna, he is from India, he has moved to Jakarta and now lives there.....but......... I have not answered him in any helpfull way as , in my opinion, there is not enough information to give a very helpfull answer. Too much guessing involved. Your suggestion of google search is good, but, he really needs to have someone local help him out. Either a Doctor or whatever the equivalent to our family councilors are.
Good point. There must be a google equivalent in Jakarta, though, if it doesn't have google.![]()
Or a phone book with Yellow pages.
Looking back I'd have to say the fear of the belt was far worse than the belt. Pain goes away rapidly but those two hours of pure hell waiting for dad to get home really gave you time to think about not ending up in this type of situation again.When you have the respect of a child. you have the authority of the message you are
getting up like it or not. There are ways to deal with it without hitting them.
I can't understand people in a flap over the fact that they can't control their child.
The first mistake is waiting until they are older and then trying to control them,
teaching them to reason comes at an early age. Back when they first encounter other
little kids in the playground. A couple of years ago we had a grandson who could not get along with his mother, aunt, brother. and almost anyone else. We had a few
verbal exchanges, and he came to live on the farm for awhile. He did nothing, until I
asked him what he would like to do that interested him. To my surprise he wanted to
learn how to play guitar. I explained that everyone on the farm does chores. There is
always something to do in the orchard. After a couple of weeks I got him a guitar.
Today, he is in the middle of getting his carpentry papers, he not only plays guitar
he play keyboard, drums, and has his own band. Oh and a full time job in construction. Reason over conflict works for me, its easier than having to fight with
kids.
you're missing the point as much as pompass is. Nobody, including me is advocating that spanking or corporal punishment be used as a primary source of punishment. Far from it. It is just another "tool" that can be very effective when used properly. Not all kids respond to corporal punishment positivley, anymore than all kids responding positivley toyour example of the school expulsion, because \i will tell you right now, I have 2 boys that would \nOT have responded in a positive manner to your discipline.
Corporal punishment is just a tool. It is not for everyone, and if you can get away without using it, more power to you, but to denigrate or put down those that DO find it effective and use it properly with great constraint...... then, personally, I question your honesty when describing how you raised and disciplined your children.
Vic20? Well, I can raise you. The very first computer I saw was when I was working in Southampton, England. It was Commodore Pet, the very first model. It had 7 k (7000 bytes) memory. It was keyboard, screen and tape recorder all fused into one unit.
I was very impressed with it, I thought it was just about the greatest thing I had ever seen. I remember writing a program to play tic tac toe on it (or noughts and crosses, as they call it in England).
petros that is my point, fear and pains does not equal respect. I believe in giving a
kid to develop self respect. I am not a wuss as you call it, I look to encourage alternatives. Kids need direction not dictation. If you find out what they are interested it you can develop a relationship with them and from there things are much easier for all concerned. In my opinion having the power to parent is really
knowing you don't have to use stern measures, to persuade a kid to take responsibility for their actions. I must have done something right. None of them got
into serious trouble, the grand children at least the older ones all have jobs and they
have or are getting post secondary training. As grampa I have respect but none of them fear me, in fact I can talk quite openly with them. Parenting is the toughest
job in the world because the shift you sign onto is twenty four/seven.
I wouldn't want to be a parent today though, life has become more complicated,
Dear All
Jakarta - Indonesia , don't know what you guys think of but let me tel I have many colleges here who are from UK , America , Norway and Canada who are working as expacts and I am from India in telecom Industry as Indonesian Telecom Industry is listed in Top ten in the world compare with other parts of the world for telecom market.It multi billion USD
I move country to to country and work there for 3-5 years and then move on to next like next on my List is CANADA for 7 Years
Google is also available in local language of Indonesia (Bahasa) , see your self and do some google your self about Indonesia ( Jakarta , Bali Surabaya Toba Lake etc)![]()
Good point, Ger.Corporal punishment is just a tool. It is not for everyone, and if you can get away without using it, more power to you, but to denigrate or put down those that DO find it effective and use it properly with great constraint...... then, personally, I question your honesty when describing how you raised and disciplined your children.