FO they never talked about their own relationship in any means, and like you said in a small town news gets around wrong or right
And you knew what I meant you just tried twisting it to make yourself look good
No, I did NOT know what you meant.
Yes, small town news gets around; and kids will ask questions ANYWHERE including a classroom.
"How was your weekend, Johnny?
"Fine Mrs. Smith, how was yours?"
"Good."
"What did you do?"
"OH I can't tell you that, that's personal information."
Give me a break; no, a teacher will tell their students that they and their family went to X, or did X or that she did X, or he did X.
And you're clueless if you think it doesn't happen.
Maybe you didn't talk to your teachers, or your poor kids didn't. I did, other classmates did. And other parents today experience it, so it happens.
A gay teacher talking about their weekend with their S/O isn't grooming or sexualizing kids or whatever fear complex y'all want to think it is. It's a person talking about their family. How about instead of kicking the teachers out for having said families and not allowed to talk about them, asshole parents take their kids out of school and either teach them themselves, or put them in a private school where they can control - sorry, the STATE can control - what is taught.
Cause that is what you and others are advocating for.