Karrie thank you
I disagree I suppose.
I don't think any philosophy can motivate us to love anyone or anything. The notion that we love because we are told to love is flawed, as is the idea that we love because we are told someone loves us.
I think if a person has love , that is where it was born, that is where it originated, with that person. It is theirs, and theirs alone. Not born of some philosophy, not scripted, not explained in simple terms of cause and effect.
You quote Bill Withers interestingly. He wrote "Lean on Me" in an effort to get human beings to demonstrate love, he helped to start a movement, so that others would receive Love. He also wrote "Ain't no Sunshine" to demonstrate the power of lost love.
No, "Love" is not born in us, it is demonstrated- or not demonstrated- first by a mother who shows much more than mere nurturing, other species show that correct? Love, can a fantasy if you will, for those who never receive that nurturing, care while children. Karrie we are different than those subspecies in that we can show, care and demonstrate Love in many many more imaginative ways than, monkeys. Correct?
Is Love merely nurturing that has exploded or fantasy?
God, if you need to call Him "fantasy" at first you may, not unlike The Lord of the Rings or Star Trek! If you explore the idea of God, research thousands of years of writings, of miracles in the name of God, you may begin to separate from the fantasy eventually, instead start to question, ponder... the "living" witness of the written and oral History of others, exploring how it changed lives.
Karrie, if you seek to believe, you will develop a faith in a philosophically and proven reality- as testified to by others, long past.
My own L5-S1 back injury was set for surgery after years of diagnosis by numerous neurologists, and specialists who, attempted "scientific therapies" along with their four years of medications. Surgery, my answer they said.
Miracles are done today as well, done in the name of God. A God who asks nothing from you, costing you nothing, but only awaits-a willingness to believe.
One night was prayed over by a woman, a stranger now but someone I knew of, years and years previously. Upset, I was, "intervened" prior to my surgery date by family and friends- all believers whom I scoffed repeatedly, while medicated. I awoke the next morning, perfectly healed. I have never doubted the Lord since.
As doors are opened, spiritually, over time a person realizes what love truly is. It is not just fantasy, it is not just a temporary euphoria. It is not a deep emotional connection that can abide over years despite memories. No, you see for me and others it will grow "amazingly" to be an eternal knowledge, an eternal comfort, than rests the soul despite all treacherous pain and any loathsome torment.
His Love, develops, deepens over time, as your share interaction, your faith relationship with this previoulsy "unknown" God. Others you meet, even those believers, never "exactly", quote the same belief, but faith IS shared. A personal growing faith that brings you an un-abiding love,
Love, from a father that demonstrates to YOU, why He CHOSE to give His only Son that YOU may know Him.
He will also choose, to share with you HOW He has known YOU... Karrie, from the very MOMENT you were conceived!
Allah be Praised
Praise the Lord and Savior
Jesus Christ Forever. Amen.