I don't think it is quite as simple as that and as such, deserves a more than simple black&white solution. But at least you've thought about this and can forward a rational argument.
But the problem is that if you attempt to make it more complicated then that, then you open the door towards not only a fetus getting equal rights as the host mother, but also picking and choosing which rights over-rule another's in which situations.... in either case, you end up denying the given human rights of one or the other. Regardless if you feel a host mother should accept responsibility, regardless of how many statistics show how or what decisions were made in each abortion case..... the decision of abortion is not for you or I to decide, or else you once again infringe on someone else's own given human rights.
Back tracking a bit, in regards to picking and choosing who's human rights trump another's (Fetus/Host Mother's) you no longer have basic human rights for all without excuse.... you have basic human rights for all.... Except if this or that occurs, which then you have your rights waived.
Your rights can be over ruled by another's rights, which isn't supposed to happen.... but if and when it does happen, you open an even bigger can of worms on other situations where people start to feel their rights are more important then another's.
Afterall, a fetus's so-called "Rights"
must over rule the host mother's rights.... otherwise, what's the point of giving a fetus rights to begin with if they are over ruled by the host mothers?
You can't have it both ways and make everybody happy..... either one groups' rights are trumped, or another groups' (Fetus or Mothers)
Since the host mother & father are supposed to be the potential parents and any and all medical decisions (among many other things) for any of their children are almost always decided by the parents (since minors are not capable of making a legally informed decision and fetus's would be even less capable) the decision for abortion would also fall in the hands of the parents.
Terminally ill children, be that new borns, toddlers or whatever, usually have their lives in the hands of the doctors and their parents to determine if the plug is pulled or if they keep fighting to keep them alive...... they rarely ever get the final say in these matters and in some cases, having their say makes little difference in the outcome anyways.
Some kids will say they want to end it and don't want to suffer anymore, yet their parents decide otherwise (as do the doctors) ~ Meanwhile you'll have other kids kick and scream that they want to live and for everything to be done to save them, yet there is nothing more that can be done.
If anybody believes a fetus can make similar decisions, can even communicate in any form whatsoever, or even understand that they exist and can cease to exist, are imo, basing these views on subjective emotional attachments to the situation and are seeking a solution (giving them human rights) that will never solve any of the existing problems in the first place and will only create more.
My answer and position isn't as black & white or as simple as you may once thought..... I just didn't want to get into a long winded elaboration on my position unless it was needed.
