Hey. Now you're starting to get it. Good going. It's part of the reason why the other NATO countries are complaining that Canada is not carrying it's own weight.
The cold war was the US and the former USSR only, it had nothing to do with any NATO member. It was also a lot more US than USSR.
If you expect payment from NATO countries you are going to have to show you are willing to listen to those countries rather than strictly dictate policy for that whole body.