There are a number of reasons why you are conflicted and the ones you mention would indicate that although you believe the bible is special there is too many things in it that are unbelievable. So, has it ever occurred to you to read the bible as metaphor and allegory instead of literal? It was never meant to be taken literally. If you listen to fundamentalists you are bound to get confused because they really don't understand the purpose for it being written the way it is. Taken literally, it is no more than a fairy tale.
One thing I've noticed all these Bible thumpers have in common is their rigidity, they just keep hammering away at the same thing. Intelligent people consider other's views and fine tune their opinions over time to become better informed and open to learning something. :smile: