Perhaps you haven't looked around at the Muslim world today and how badly this war has hurt them by comparison.
Lets look at the human Cost, Including 9/11 the total US death toll is hovering around 10,000 people. Thats as much as die each season in New York state from Traffic Accidents. Its also cost about half a trillion for Iraq, probably half that again for Afghanistan (rounding it out to 3/4 trillion dollars).
Now compare that to the Muslim world, in terms of the numbers dead (probably nearing a million), the amount lost (destroyed infrastructure, lost productivity from living in a warzone, destroyed resources) and youre nearing the two or three trillion mark when you count the ripple effects on the whole region (which also suffer ironically, when America suffers, so they suffer twice).
Moslem love for the US? Big deal, there are more Non-Moslem's who have similar "love" for the Islamic world than there are are Islamic people who feel that way about the US.
And the Islamic world is in bigger need of love than America is, America's wealth is only 10% external, they are one of the few countries that can simply close its borders and retain about the same standard of living. Most Islamic nations tend to be Export heavy and are on Unfriendly terms with India, China, Russia, the EU, America, Australia and Africa.
This "war on terror" isn't really working out well for the Islamic world, It may be a pyrhic victory for the USA, but its sure as hell going alot better for them then for the Islamic fundementalists, who probably should have thought this course of action through alot better.