See Pete's answer. Not the word I would have chosen but the description fits. Another one could be benevolent dictatorship. Even though we "elect" our representatives from a list of the chosen they are more about telling us what their party will do to us than telling the party what we want."Supposed to."
If it's not a democracy, what is it?
That's true, I'm shocked you're realizing this.
As long as some people have rights that others don't we do not have a true democracy. Hope this isn't too complicated for you to grasp.