B.C. judge rules father guilty of “family violence” for calling trans son “she”

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Hmmm... lemme see here. So a Muslim father disagrees with his atheist son's beliefs, and we'll immediately assume his sone is in danger because som other Muslim in another country killed an atheist?

We could even reverse that. An atheist father disagrees with his Muslim son's beliefs, so we'll immediatley presume that his son is in danger because of the terrors of the Communist revolutions in the former USSR and China?


Missed the point. Thanks for trying though.
 

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You almost had it right, but then missed the point.
The father doesn't just 'disagree' with his son, he openly says that his son is wrong, misgenders him and because of that, the possibility of his son trying suicide - for the second time - is higher. Hence the family violence part of the judgment.
And the point of my posting the article is that people like the father, who deny that Trans people not only exist but are who they say they are, leads to violence and a lot of times, death. Sure the father might not have outright threatened his son, but that's for now.
And since when is emotional abuse not violent?
There still is no son and never will be.
 

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There still is no son and never will be.


WHY? Do people have such a hard time getting that through their heads? The poor girl is fcuked up and people should realize SHE is the one who is fcuked up and lay off the father. The poor bugger is probably beside himself...…………….I know I would be!
 

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The child needs needs a medical procedure and the support of the family.
 

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WHY? Do people have such a hard time getting that through their heads? The poor girl is fcuked up and people should realize SHE is the one who is fcuked up and lay off the father. The poor bugger is probably beside himself...…………….I know I would be!


Because YOU do not get to dictate what gender he is.


Yes, he's ****ed up, nature ****ed up and made his brain and body not match.


Forcing someone who is one gender to live as they appear is brutal, mentally and emotionally damaging and cruel. That's WHY he wants the blockers, that's WHY Trans people with severe dysphoria get GRS surgery.


The FATHER is ****ed up because he can't accept that his SON is the way he is. The 'poor bugger' is beside himself because he doesn't give a shit what so ever about his SON, rather than his ego and the appearance of his being able to father a 'normal' kid. If his kid mattered, it wouldn't matter if his kid was Trans or not, 'normal' or not, or what-ever. He'd love the kid regardless.


Obviously this father has love, but it's conditional and THAT is not the way a parent should be.
 

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So what was the point? Had the father threatened to kill his daughter?


Oh for...


First, religion has nothing to do with being Trans, thus there is no comparing the two situations.


Second, trans people - no matter the country - are rarely safe. Even Canada isn't safe for Trans people, that's the point of the article even if it's a US printed one. So the father is indulging in his transphobia and hate against his son by not only misgendering him, but deciding to talk to people about it, including Conservative networks, and according an article referencing the original case article, exposing him to harm by doing so. Which, from the link I posted, it does. Because Trans people are injured and killed all the time due to the same hate the father has.


FFS, the father even mentioned his son's PERSONAL INFORMATION. That puts him at risk from assholes who love nothing better than to beat up trans people, kids or not. The kid is 14; that was NOT right for him to do what so ever without consulting his mother at least!


So he got judgment for putting his kid at risk of family violence and rightfully so.


Throw in that the kid had attempted suicide because of things beforehand, and it was found likely to happen again if the father didn't shut his goddamned mouth... yeah, the father is as deadly to his son as anyone threatening to kill him.
 

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Oh for...


First, religion has nothing to do with being Trans, thus there is no comparing the two situations.


Second, trans people - no matter the country - are rarely safe. Even Canada isn't safe for Trans people, that's the point of the article even if it's a US printed one. So the father is indulging in his transphobia and hate against his son by not only misgendering him, but deciding to talk to people about it, including Conservative networks, and according an article referencing the original case article, exposing him to harm by doing so. Which, from the link I posted, it does. Because Trans people are injured and killed all the time due to the same hate the father has.

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The child obviously has enough problems without referring to her as his "son". What's the chance of the kid ever being realistic if no one else is? This is beyond stupidity!
 

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The child obviously has enough problems without referring to her as his "son". What's the chance of the kid ever being realistic if no one else is? This is beyond stupidity!


Yes, he's got an asshole for a father who'd rather see him dead or hurt than healthy.


Chances now are good with the father out of the picture and being able to get on blockers. Wouldn't have given him a chance before.


You're right, you and the dad and others like you need to stop dwelling in your stupidity and just let it go.
 

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Yes, he's got an asshole for a father who'd rather see him dead or hurt than healthy.


Chances now are good with the father out of the picture and being able to get on blockers. Wouldn't have given him a chance before.


You're right, you and the dad and others like you need to stop dwelling in your stupidity and just let it go.


No, she has a father that is concerned for her welfare and fighting for her future.


Your continuing accusations that the father has malevolent intentions is completely unfounded, unfair, and discredits your entire argument.
 

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Why do you insist on sharing your unimportant opinion day after day after day?

We all get it. There is nothing about your opinion you have not stated over and over and over.

Why can't you shut up about it?
Why can't you?
Your shit stinks like everybody else's
 

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No, she has a father that is concerned for her welfare and fighting for her future.


Your continuing accusations that the father has malevolent intentions is completely unfounded, unfair, and discredits your entire argument.


Accusations that were proven in court enough for a judge to tell him to STFU about his son.


If he was so concerned, he'd actually not open his trap to Conservative outlets to OUT his own trans kid with PERSONAL ID of a FOUR-DAMN-TEEN year old kid.


Just WHERE do you see a concerned father who would out his kid like that to people who would love nothing better than to shove Trans people in the closet, regardless of how tormented and broken they are thanks to what they do?

Holy Gods you people are just sick.
 

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Accusations that were proven in court enough for a judge to tell him to STFU about his son.


If he was so concerned, he'd actually not open his trap to Conservative outlets to OUT his own trans kid with PERSONAL ID of a FOUR-DAMN-TEEN year old kid.


Just WHERE do you see a concerned father who would out his kid like that to people who would love nothing better than to shove Trans people in the closet, regardless of how tormented and broken they are thanks to what they do?

Holy Gods you people are just sick.


You got it backwards, honey!
 

JLM

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No, she has a father that is concerned for her welfare and fighting for her future.


Your continuing accusations that the father has malevolent intentions is completely unfounded, unfair, and discredits your entire argument.


Good to see someone on the forum with some common sense, so much of the world today has totally lost its grip on reality!
 

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Yes, he's got an asshole for a father who'd rather see him dead or hurt than healthy.


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No, I think she's got a father who isn't much different than other fathers. I can see his point exactly, while no sane person wants to see someone dead or hurt, but he certainly wouldn't rather see her dead than HEALTHY and it would probably only be after a lot of soul searching that you come to realize death might be a blessing compared to being subjected to a life time of suffering in the state she is in. I.M H.O. THAT is the sane way of looking at it.
 

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Support of the family yes. The girl does not need any medical procedure or drugs. A shrink maybe.


Funny that. In order to be on blockers, seeing a psychologist AND therapist are required.


But you'd know that if you actually looked into the issue, which you wouldn't, because you prefer dead kids over them being Trans.