Men are threatened by intelligent women, study finds

taxslave

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Yes yes, I'm sure you're the studliest muffin living in your parent's basement.

Not quite. They're saying it could be detrimental to the mental/intellectual development of teens. And I have no doubt it would be. So is alcohol. Anything that alters the mind and brain chemistry in a still developing brain runs a higher risk of doing permanent damage than in adults. Particularly when it's abused and not just partaken in occasionally.
The wake 'n' bakers are the ones most likely to stunt their development.

Maybe that is why there are so many stupid people ruining our country today. They and/or their parents did too many drugs in their youth.
 

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Maybe that is why there are so many stupid people ruining our country today. They and/or their parents did too many drugs in their youth.

You hit the nail on the head there, taxslave. One reason I worry a lot about Justin! :)
 

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Would children be happier and less go off the rails if the more intelligent parent was put in charge of raising them?
Not in my opinion. The more balanced parent would seem to be the best one to raise the kids.

Ludlow, stupidity is easy to deal with, it is ignorance that is a toughie (especially the willful type of ignorance).
 

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Personally I believe that broken marriages have the most adverse effect on the kids. I speak from experience. You feel disoriented, dislocated and distraught. one of the most damaging things to happen to a child, regardless of the reasons.
 

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Personally I believe that broken marriages have the most adverse effect on the kids. I speak from experience. You feel disoriented, dislocated and distraught. one of the most damaging things to happen to a child, regardless of the reasons.

Yep, I agree, I was there!
 

JLM

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And you also feel somewhat abandoned JLM. I'm glad that when my marriage came apart, my kids were grown.

Not anymore, thankfully my marriage is still intact. I've always followed one philosophy - let your partner think she's right at least 55% of the time.
 

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Would children be happier and less go off the rails if the more intelligent parent was put in charge of raising them?

I'm not sure how much of a role intelligence plays........................sensible and wise maybe!

Oooooooooh, oooooooooooh the forum idiot has reared his head again! :) :)

they'd have to be emotionally intelligent not just IQ intelligent then. You can provide a child with all the right things but if there is not deep love the child will suffer worse then a child that is loved to bits, but hasn't got some of it's other needs meant.

There needs to be balance. And even then you can't prevent the outside world from having an impact also.

Absolutely and deep love includes tough discipline when needed and the patience and wisdom to encourage a child do to as much for themselves as they can with your instruction.
 

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Whats really dangerous isn't intelligent women..its women..( and men too) who THINK they are smart
Anyone who is truly intelligent isn't a threat unless you ask for it
 

JLM

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Whats really dangerous isn't intelligent women..its women..( and men too) who THINK they are smart
Anyone who is truly intelligent isn't a threat unless you ask for it

Depends on how you define a threat! A "threat" comes from within a person's head. What can be dangerous is a valid threat!
 

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Whats really dangerous isn't intelligent women..its women..( and men too) who THINK they are smart
Anyone who is truly intelligent isn't a threat unless you ask for it
I presume you mean people who think they're smart but really aren't, and I also think you're implicitly redefining intelligent to mean what you want it to mean. I know some very bright people--advanced degrees, high powered jobs--who are total pricks, and I know some not very bright people--grade 5 education and unemployed--who are the soul of kindness and generosity. No contest who I'd rather spend time with. Things aren't as simple as you seem to be suggesting.
 

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I think part of planned parenthood should result in the most intelligent (aka kind person) parent being the one that raises the children just because less things have to be fixed later in their lives.

IQ's are based on what you already know, the areas that you lack can be filled by more education on the topic, forced as topic you already like will be scored high at the start. The balancing part means you can have an 'intelligent' conversation with the other 19 people in the room rather than only being able to relate to only a very few. Those are the ones you would view as being the most intelligent in the said room. That part should be no surprise.
 

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Some people just feel threatened by intelligence - period. I worked for 6 years for one, he kept stressing how important it was to have control, yet it worked in reverse.
 

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I think it is about balance,I am more leading on intelligence in some areas,others not so much and visa versa with my partner.
i would not want to be the "more" intelligent one always in our relationship,or even the dumb one in our relationship.
i know people who are perpetually dumb and naive and their partners are turned on by this.
i don't do numbers,my husband is the number dude,this is one of many examples that we share balanced intelligence.
of course we are both good at playing dumb,it is all balance.
and let it be known,it is important to make our partners feel we respect their intelligence,not the opposite means of making our partner feel dumb and not up to standards.