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kobusdkock

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what am i dong wrong? God dont help me, He dont help me, He dont listen to my prairs, i am alone, i sinn more and more . i did something wrong but dont want to go wrong way but is on wrong way.
i dissapoited God. i am ****ed up. i am not good enouth. i knew God will drop me. i knew God dont want me, and surely He dont help me. He dont hear my prairs, even i know i am sorry i ask for help/ forgiveness, i know i mean it out of my heart, but He dont resuce me. He dont want me. because i know i ask Him for help, i know i ask Him to save me. i know i dont lie when i say my hert ist true when i ask forgiveness/ help. but God do nothing, so what did i do wrong?
 

Cliffy

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what am i dong wrong? God dont help me, He dont help me, He dont listen to my prairs, i am alone, i sinn more and more . i did something wrong but dont want to go wrong way but is on wrong way.
i dissapoited God. i am ****ed up. i am not good enouth. i knew God will drop me. i knew God dont want me, and surely He dont help me. He dont hear my prairs, even i know i am sorry i ask for help/ forgiveness, i know i mean it out of my heart, but He dont resuce me. He dont want me. because i know i ask Him for help, i know i ask Him to save me. i know i dont lie when i say my hert ist true when i ask forgiveness/ help. but God do nothing, so what did i do wrong?
Try forgiving yourself. We all make mistakes. That is how we learn.

Without more input, it is difficult to help you. Actually, it is impossible to help anyone. There is an old saying that god helps those who help themselves. Perhaps if you forgave yourself, your god would have room to forgive you. What will f**k you up more than anything is keeping it all bottled up inside. Find a caring person to share your load, to listen to your story.
 

kobusdkock

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Try forgiving yourself. We all make mistakes. That is how we learn.

Without more input, it is difficult to help you. Actually, it is impossible to help anyone. There is an old saying that god helps those who help themselves. Perhaps if you forgave yourself, your god would have room to forgive you. What will f**k you up more than anything is keeping it all bottled up inside. Find a caring person to share your load, to listen to your story.

thank you, 1 problem i have is to get that caring person, i feel ashame to talk to my mother or brother, and i am alone, i have no friends, 1 main problem is the fact that i pray for a wife,,,,,,, long time now i pray for a wife. i cant be alone = killing me. at work all people is non belivers i am alone.
this is 1 reaosn why i am f**up.
 

gerryh

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thank you, 1 problem i have is to get that caring person, i feel ashame to talk to my mother or brother, and i am alone, i have no friends, 1 main problem is the fact that i pray for a wife,,,,,,, long time now i pray for a wife. i cant be alone = killing me. at work all people is non belivers i am alone.
this is 1 reaosn why i am f**up.


Speak to your minister.
 

coldstream

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what am i dong wrong? God dont help me, He dont help me, He dont listen to my prairs, i am alone, i sinn more and more . i did something wrong but dont want to go wrong way but is on wrong way.
i dissapoited God. i am ****ed up. i am not good enouth. i knew God will drop me. i knew God dont want me, and surely He dont help me. He dont hear my prairs, even i know i am sorry i ask for help/ forgiveness, i know i mean it out of my heart, but He dont resuce me. He dont want me. because i know i ask Him for help, i know i ask Him to save me. i know i dont lie when i say my hert ist true when i ask forgiveness/ help. but God do nothing, so what did i do wrong?


There is an ancient Classical proverb.. that works well for modern faith as well. An ox cart driver was plodding along a remote, rutted, rocky trail. As was the lot of this driver the wooden wheel of his cart sank into a deep rut and all of the cajoling of his ox could not release the wheel. He got out and threw his arms at the heavens, cursing and pleading to the gods, called on mighty Hercules to come to his aid and flung himself weeping and wailing to the ground.. and lay there wrapped in his own misery and hopelessness.

Sometime later a mysterious cloaked stranger came along. Exhausted and defeated the driver weakly asked him for some help. The stranger said "yes, i will help.. but first, put your own shoulder to the wheel and push with all the might with which you have been pleading to the gods". Reluctantly the driver did so, with all his might and will, and wheel sprung free. The driver looked around to thank the stranger.. but found himself alone on the road..
 
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In Between Man

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what am i dong wrong? God dont help me, He dont help me, He dont listen to my prairs,, i sinn more and more . i did something wrong but dont want to go wrong way but is on wrong way.

Take a deep breath and relax. God hears your prayers: "You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it." (John 14:14)

i dissapoited God. i am ****ed up.

Realize that even when you fail God, it is impossible for him to fail you. "If we are unfaithful, he remains faithful, for he cannot deny who he is." (2 Timothy 2:13)

i am not good enouth. i knew God will drop me. i knew God dont want me, and surely He dont help me.

Again, not true. God is not a respecter of persons, he doesn't look to see who is "good enough". Assuming that you are indeed a Christian, God doesn't see your failures, he simply sees Christ's blood when he looks at you. You are worthy. "God takes care of the smallest bird, are you not more valuable than they?" (Matthew 6:26)

thank you, 1 problem i have is to get that caring person,and i am alone, i have no friends, 1 main problem is the fact that i pray for a wife,,,,,,, long time now i pray for a wife.

And God has a wife for you. In fact, he knows exactly the person for you. You need to boldly present God's word to him in your prayers because the word of God is the will of God, and he wants to honor his will for you. He wants to give you the desires of your heart, in this case a wife. "Delight in the Lord (stand on his promise) and he will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4). Pray: "God, you want me to have the desires of my heart according to your word - and I desire a wife. Thank you for honoring your word and will for me."

i cant be alone = killing me. at work all people is non belivers i am alone.
this is 1 reaosn why i am f**up.

I hear your pain. Being consistently around the Godless is brutal. Surround yourself with believers who can share their faith with you. Go to church! And realize that you're truly never alone, God sent the Holy Spirit to be your comforter and helper. (John 14:17)

The time between now and when your prayer for a wife is manifested is a faith-building experience. Thank God for the work he is doing in you and stand on his promise that he hears your prayers, wants you to have a wife, and ignore thoughts from the enemy that contradict what God has already said about you. You are not a failure, you are not alone, God is not ignoring you.

God bless you brother.
 

Cliffy

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And sometimes god sends help and we are too tied up in our own self pity to see it. Kinda like the story of the guy on the roof of his house as the flood waters rise around him. A boat comes and he says, "No thanks, god will save me". Then a helicopter comes and he says, "no thanks, god will save me". Then he drowns and at the Pearly gates he asks St Peter why god did not save him and St Peter says, "we sent you a boat and a helicopter and you refused to be rescued".
 

rpandher

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Reading your story it seems like you are trying to live your christian life by your own strength rather than god's. I made the same mistake before god opened my eyes.

There is no magic wand for your problem brother except trusting in god. John 14:1 Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in god. Trust also in me (Jesus).

John 15:5 to 10 talks about obeying jesus's commands no matter how hard it gets. That's what being his disciple is all about. I know it is tough to obey his commands when we are tempted every second by our bodily desires. That is why we are called to pray to god and ask for his help in obeying his commands.

I was a smoker before I became a christian and I almost went back to smoking and then I prayed to god and said in the prayer- god I am going to fall if you do not help me. I do not have the strength to resist this temptation. Believe it or not, temptation went away and I almost felt like how his disciples felt when he calmed the storm.

However you must submit to god's will even though you can be honest to god about what you are feeling. Remember how jesus prayed in the garden of gethsamene before he was crucified- "father may this cup be taken from me yet not what I will but what you will". You have to be honest about your feelings because god knows what we are going through as he himself faced all these temptations and overcame them.

The bible says that he treats us (his followers) like his friends but we must humble ourselves before him. Read the book of psalms- it is all about seeking god's help. Dig deep into god's word and meditate on it. Let the words go right into your heart and stay there. Keep praying whether times are happy or bad and seek god's help in everything you do.

I will leave you with another passage- in the book of proverbs"

"Trust in the lord and lean not on your own understanding. Acknowledge him in all your ways and he will make your paths straight".

How fortunate we are as christians to have our god so near to us when we call him. He is so eager to help us once we submit to him and rely on his strength rather than ours.

I will pray for your you brother and may the peacce of god rest on you.

Robby
r_pandher@yahoo.com
 

TenPenny

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what am i dong wrong? God dont help me, He dont help me, He dont listen to my prairs, i am alone, i sinn more and more . i did something wrong but dont want to go wrong way but is on wrong way.
i dissapoited God. i am ****ed up. i am not good enouth. i knew God will drop me. i knew God dont want me, and surely He dont help me. He dont hear my prairs, even i know i am sorry i ask for help/ forgiveness, i know i mean it out of my heart, but He dont resuce me. He dont want me. because i know i ask Him for help, i know i ask Him to save me. i know i dont lie when i say my hert ist true when i ask forgiveness/ help. but God do nothing, so what did i do wrong?

What you did wrong is expecting some mythological figure to forgive you.
You might as well ask Scooby Doo to forgive you, there's a better chance.
 

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See a priest and go to confession. Tell him all the sins you remember. Don't be concerned, everything is in complete confidentiality. He is representing Jesus and by his authority absolves you of all your sins. Then relax, spend some time in the sunshine, and try not to follow the wrong path again. You are now in complete friendship with God.
 

taxslave

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Could be that your spelling and grammar is so atrocious that god has no clue what you are asking. If you really think there is such a thing as god try something simple like" Dear God, thank you for letting me see another glorious sunrise" every morning.

What you did wrong is expecting some mythological figure to forgive you.
You might as well ask Scooby Doo to forgive you, there's a better chance.

Scooby does forgiveness? Way cool.
 

Omicron

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what am i dong wrong? God dont help me, He dont help me, He dont listen to my prairs, i am alone, i sinn more and more . i did something wrong but dont want to go wrong way but is on wrong way.
i dissapoited God. i am ****ed up. i am not good enouth. i knew God will drop me. i knew God dont want me, and surely He dont help me. He dont hear my prairs, even i know i am sorry i ask for help/ forgiveness, i know i mean it out of my heart, but He dont resuce me. He dont want me. because i know i ask Him for help, i know i ask Him to save me. i know i dont lie when i say my hert ist true when i ask forgiveness/ help. but God do nothing, so what did i do wrong?

One option would be to jump out of an airplane with a parachute with training being only to show you where the pull-cord is, to see if you pull the cord correctly before hitting the ground.

Ever have ancestors from Europe come here so hostile from the crap they were leaving being that to be here they would live outside Edson Alberta and eat boiled cabbage plus the cheapest boiled meat plus take on a foster-kid in order to ...

... to do what?

Get away from it all?

Make a better life?

I seriously guarantee to you on a mathematical level that if you figure out a way to make the flow of money around you go for the people around you to enable them to be less stressed as they spend the money back on you, then it will cost less than putting up American-style walled-suburbs.

Develop a skill. (i.e. hammer steel into wheels and spokes)

Find a group around your moral-way-of-thinking where they do everything except what you do, such that you can add to the picture.

Most important is be around reliable food-producers. Go ahead and make the growers feel like they're rich. It doesn't mean you can't trade between each other once fed.

Did you know that Monsanto is trying to patent God-DNA?

It means Monsanto is either a puppet of Lucifer, or it's populated by brain-damaged puppets of Lucifer being told that they will be the first to be eaten in hell if they don't figured out a way to bribe and/or terrify and/or blackmail members of the Supreme Court of the USA into saying that it's okay for a dumb-**** MBA to claim ownership of a DNA sequence God already had created.

Problem is... we know it was already there before they discovered it, so they can't claim it that way.

If you want to use the American legal system to bring about (what was the colour of that horse of famine?), I would recommend another.
 
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talloola

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why don't you have a little faith in yourself, why don't you help yourself, don't sit around waiting
for some mythical figure to help, the answer is in your head, and your heart and your desire to do
better.
You have the power, not some imaginary god, you will be waiting forever.

Do something for yourself, and find others to talk to, tell others about your problems , get it all
sorted out with other humans, real people, those who can actually talk to you.
 

Omicron

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why don't you have a little faith in yourself, why don't you help yourself, don't sit around waiting
for some mythical figure to help, the answer is in your head, and your heart and your desire to do
better.
You have the power, not some imaginary god, you will be waiting forever.

Do something for yourself, and find others to talk to, tell others about your problems , get it all
sorted out with other humans, real people, those who can actually talk to you.
What's your point?

What's your point?

As a point, did you know you could set up a grey concrete block in downtown Vancouver with concrete stalls each with a shower-nosel spitting out cold water for each and every downtown bum to go in and take a cold shower.

We also have the cheep knowledge of setting up in that same gray blockhouse building a grey room with a cot with proper blankets as if you guys had never seen how Russians dealt with drunken idiots.

If you want to get deep into it we also have the way to change their state of depression to one of doing insolong as they have a way to find love.

I think we could plant them on Mars as they has a "Danger Will Robertson" robot to tell them what and when to eat.

It's all about cost, and right now the rest of the planet is trying to suck "cost" out of Canada... all the stuff we have.

Pretend you are you are your ancestors. Pretend you had to do mosquitoes with mud and crappy climate like them, and just when it's got, puppets of Lucifer con you into selling it off.
 

Nuggler

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See a priest and go to confession. Tell him all the sins you remember. Don't be concerned, everything is in complete confidentiality. He is representing Jesus and by his authority absolves you of all your sins. Then relax, spend some time in the sunshine, and try not to follow the wrong path again. You are now in complete friendship with God.


And STOP jerking off so much. You'll go blind.
 

Nuggler

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I always worried more about having hairy palms. I would never be able to go out in public with hairy palms. 8O

There's a new product out called "NO No"..........guaranteed to remove unwanted hair. You could contact the company and ask if they would do a new commercial with hairy palms being the topic...............:lol:

I have problems venturing out with my coke-bottle glasses.....................someone 'might' twig.

Shoulda paid more attention to maw.