1. When do I get mailbox access? I want to PM an admin?
2. When can I change my member title?
3. One of my posts went to moderation this morning and I don't see it yet. It's either slow moderation or the post was disallowed. I asked about opinions on what I could do with the MapleOne network?
You either need 21 or 25 posts before you are able to have PM capability(that is to prevent spammers from flooding everyone's PM box with spam). Judging from the number of posts you have so far, you should either have it or be close to it.
Member title should be available somewhere in your Control Panel. I am not sure exactly where it is, but it is there.
Regarding the Moderated Post, it will never be approved automatically. We(the Mods) or Andem(the Admin) have to check the post in question to see if is allowed to be posted. I'll bet that you were attempting to post a Youtube video and the auto-mod hit it. That usually happens when a new member attempts to post a YouTube video. If I can find it, I'll see if I can approve it for you.
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Maple, as far as your Moderated Post goes, I would send a PM to Andem(since you should be able to do so shortly) to ask if it is okay to be Approved. It doesn't look like too big of a deal to me, but I would rather be safe than sorry.