What does one have to do with the other?Of course, it's her fault. No big surprise coming from you. I suppose if your wife or daughter is ever raped or violated you'll be blaming them.
If they were for hubby you would take them, send them, and erase them from 'the camera'. The bigger creep than the snoopy kid is the one who sent a note with the pics. That is the one who needs to be found and taken off the street.