I really am not certain of what you are saying here since that is pretty much what mother's and father's day currently represents. So if you are going with the status quo you are already there.
I know some people do believe that is what makes a parent. I personally do not believe the ability to successfully place sperm and egg together to produce a child qualifies them as a parent nor do I believe that the ability to successfully produce children means one should. And I would further point out the level of pedophilia and abuse would support my stance.
A kid doesn't need a mother and father, they need nurturing, guidance and most of all love.
I beleive he is saying that he desires an argument & that you are 'it'.
