No one is ever obligated to reply. I welcome him to but it's his choice.
No more than you make, so why are mine something less than your own?
If she was trained why would she be afraid of firearms? That doesn't make any sense. If she is licensed with all the correct paper work, then why would she not have a gun? Again that doesn't make any sense.
Well, Bob lives in Alba Nuadh so I assumed his Mom lives there or near by. I suppose she could live in a hut on Easter Island but that isn't likely either. If she did live in say, Vermont, she would probably have a number of guns laying about the place anyway. So it wouldn't make sense for Bob to make the offer.
Sure, and so does a .45 hand gun. Which would be easier for her to keep in her handbag or night table drawer.
Just because your cockamamie world of exceptions, unlikelihoods and anomalies help to make your justifications gel in your head doesn't mean they are the least bit sensible, common or correct.
We are drawn to our comforts and familiarities far more than our dislikes.
I don't get the feel that she is a cross between Annie Oakly and Sarah Connor from Terminator movies. While you seem to have this impression that everyone who touches a gun becomes expert quick draw nerves of steel heroes, the majority of people even police, damn near **** their pants when they have to shoot someone. It take the military weeks of intense psychological training to get people over their fear and hesitation to kill someone. Some never get over it and older people are never allowed to enter basic training because their minds don't reshape to accept what is thus far been unacceptable to them in a deep profound sense. Tossing grandma a .45 and showing her where the safety is, how to load and cock the gun isn't going to get her over that little hump I am afraid.
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Guns and Self-Defense by Gary Kleck, Ph.D.
http://www.garymauser.net/pdf/CSD-JCJ-JFP-8-3-99.pdf