So, instead of explaining to her that she had misinterpreted what she was being told, you instead chose to call the Church a liar and turn her away from it.
the church should have explained what they meant in a way
that would not confuse her, or make her think that they
meant it literally, they chose to let her walk away thinking that god was her real parent, not unlike any
company peddling their wares, and advertising in a way
that will make you think they are the best and only way
to go.
She learned just how the church operates, the good and
the bad as she grew up, and developed a very balanced and
healthy attitude, and understands how life is, and kept an
open mind, and was encouraged to learn about religion, and
make up her own mind in regard to 'what' she thinks about that
part of life, and she did that.
The church is just another corporate money grabber, who
wants to take your money and run.
In defence of the church as a place to gather people, I
like what the 'people' of the church do, as they do help
others and gather together to comfort and make others
feel wanted, at least the 'real' people of the church do
that, unlike the leaders of the church and the hypocrites
who also gather there to let others think they are 'good',
when they are actually looking for brownie points.