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what surprises me that eight Democrats voted with the Republicans which means that they listened to the voters instead of voting on party lines
 

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I am really surprised that New York rejected it

There is no surprise here, the votes were not there. Senate in New York is more conservative than the House, until recently, the senate was controlled by the Republicans. The House has consistently voted for gay marriage, senate against.

I think they are also going to try in New Jersey before the next Governor takes office (he is opposed to gay marriage, the current one supports it). But again, I don’t think the votes are there.
 

SirJosephPorter

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For every step forward that humanity takes, there are times like this that we take two steps back.8O

Like it really hurts people to allow gay couples to marry.:roll:


You have got it wrong, shadowshiv. It is not one step forward, two steps back. It is two steps forward, one step back.

All the movements by minorities to achieve equal rights have had a rocky road, it always has been two steps forward, one step back. Black civil rights movement, Feminist movement suffered plenty of setbacks along the way. It is usually a struggle of decades to achieve equality, not of years. Even the movement to get women the vote was difficult and hard fought.

Indeed, if you step back and look at the whole picture, gays in USA and Canada have made much more progress than would have been thought possible say, just 20 years ago. 20 years ago I wouldn’t have thought that we would have legal gay marriage today (20 years ago I myself probably would have been opposed to gay marriage, had the issue come up).

In USA, several states have approved gay marriage (and several more have civil unions). Even in New York, in spite of the defeat, marriages which take place in other states or in Canada are still recognized in New York. So New York gays can still get married, it is just that they will have to travel to Vermont, Connecticut or (still better) Ontario to do so.
 

SirJosephPorter

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what surprises me that eight Democrats voted with the Republicans which means that they listened to the voters instead of voting on party lines


Party lines are not as sharp and distinct in USA as they are here. It is not at all unusual for Democrats to vote with the Republicans, and the other way round.

Indeed, Obama’s stimulus package would not have passed if three Republicans had not have voted for it (Democrats did not have 60, a filibuster proof majority at that time).
 

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38 Politicians decide what the voting population wants? I guess they'll find out one way or the other when it's time to vote.;-)

werent the people who voted against the same-sex marriage voted into office by the people? if so its there decision, and if the people vote on it seperately because they werent happy then thats there decision too
 

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werent the people who voted against the same-sex marriage voted into office by the people? if so its there decision, and if the people vote on it seperately because they werent happy then thats there decision too
That seems to be acceptable only when some people agree with the resulting vote.
 

JLM

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NY Senate rejects gay marriage bill


By FREDRIC U. DICKER, STATE EDITOR
Last Updated: 11:04 PM, December 2, 2009
Posted: 12:14 PM, December 2, 2009
ALBANY – The attempt to legalize same sex marriage in New York suffered a crushing defeat in the state Senate today as eight Democrats joined all 30 Republicans to reject the measure, 24-38.The defeat left prospects for the legalization of same sex marriage in New York dismal at best for the next 13 months since nervous lawmakers aren’t expected to take up the measure next year, when they must all face the voters.
The defeat stunned gay marriage supporters, who launched a loud demonstration outside the Senate chamber immediately after the vote, chanting, “equal rights now, equal rights now.’’

The vote came after a highly emotional 2 1/2 hour debate and just hours after the measure was approved for the third time by the Democrat-controlled Assembly.

Another state gets it right.

As repugnant as the idea seems to many, it doesn't bother me too much to see these people pair themselves off. What is repugnant to me is the amount of money being spent on this.
 

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It seems that there are a few on here that would rather see gays flogged than to allow them to marry.
Personally, I think marriage is becoming a meaningless institution so I don't understand why there is a fuss about it. I feel the same way about it as I do about the women's equal rights movement: why would they want to be equal to a bunch of jerks?
 
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I find it scary that people still haven't caught on to the fact that the majority voting on how the minority are allowed to live their lives, is wrong. Of any country that should understand that, you'd think the US would get it. Apparently not though. Too bad.
 

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I find it scary that people still haven't caught on to the fact that the majority voting on how the minority are allowed to live their lives, is wrong. Of any country that should understand that, you'd think the US would get it. Apparently not though. Too bad.
There are some that do but the majority are lagging behind. I have quite a few American friends living in Canada for that very reason.
 
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JLM

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It seems that there are a few on here that would rather see gays flogged than to allow them to marry.
Personally, I think marriage is becoming a meaningless institution so I don't understand why there is a fuss about it. I feel the same way about it as I do about the women's equal rights movement: why would they want to be equal to a bunch of jerks?

And you just aren't whistling Dixie, there Cliff. Any new snow on the east side of the Monashee this morning. WE got a skiff in Vernon.
 

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And you just aren't whistling Dixie, there Cliff. Any new snow on the east side of the Monashee this morning. WE got a skiff in Vernon.
Yup. 1/2 inch.... maybe. Gotta cold so I won't be wondering out in it today.
 

JLM

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Yup. 1/2 inch.... maybe. Gotta cold so I won't be wondering out in it today.

You too eh? This is a strange bug, just when you figure you have it beat it comes back as bad as ever. Maybe some germ warfare going on. :lol::lol::lol:
 

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I find it scary that people still haven't caught on to the fact that the majority voting on how the minority are allowed to live their lives, is wrong. Of any country that should understand that, you'd think the US would get it. Apparently not though. Too bad.

To be fair, that is not what happened here. There was not a referendum, as took place in many stares. I find the idea of a referendum (where the majority decides by a 50%+1 vote what rights minorities should have) repugnant.

Here it was decided by the House and the senate; I think that is the proper way to do it. It should be decided by the elected politicians and the courts (as it was done in Canada), not in a referendum.

This indeed is a setback in the struggle by gays to achieve equal rights, but I think a temporary one. As poll after poll has shown the younger generation is much more sympathetic to gay marriage, and momentum is on the side of gays. I think it is only a matter of time before gay marriage becomes accepted over most of USA (though I don’t see that happening for another 20 years).