Unfortunately when circumstances change in our lives, even when we get older, new opportunities to do dumb things still seem to present themselves; Not so long ago while recovering from medical problems I decided to take up cycling to keep in shape and get back on the road to health more quickly. Having moved off the farm with our dog to a more urban setting I thought it would be a good idea to take her with me. This is a former outside dog, part whippet, part border collie, and part teenager. The speed, the spirit, and the attention span, respectively. A dog that needs to run but now doesn't have the acreage to do it. A dog I have clocked doing 40 mph in a sprint. Having her lope along side of me at a gentle pace with her leash in my left hand was enjoyable, until she spied the squirrel to her right. Yup, she bolted as if she were rocket powered, the retractible leash reached its limit before I could let go, took my left hand, still firmly on the handle grip, twisted the handlebars fully to the right, and I caught air. When I regained cousiousness she had the squirrel treed and I had, among other things, a broken collar bone.
There is a saying....Or there should be a saying.....Never put your life or immediate health in the charge of an animal with an I.Q. of eight.. Once I was riding my uncle's big farm horse. I had gotten on the horse by way of a close fence. Once the horse decided the ride was over it headed for the barn where there was some nice, fresh hay. The barn door was low and this was a big horse. The horse had to duck slightly tho get through the door but the top of that door opening wiped me off that horse slicker than hell. I only got a few bruises but I swear that bloody horse laughed at me.
My Dad used to have a saying that came back to haunt over the years;
Too soon we grow old, and too late smart! :smile:
- checking to see if there was any gas fumes left in a 45 gallon drum using a Bic
- trying to outrun a logging truck on a snowmobile
I've been using that one for quite some time myself, jeez, how old am I?:scratch:
I have noticed that as I advance in age, I find myself using many of these old phrases. They just seem to pop into my mind at the appropriate time. :smile:
You're turning into my dad. :tongue3:
Worse! I'm turning into the person I used to say I would never be, way back when I knew everything. :lol::lol::lol::lol:
I can't think of 10 stupid things I've done. I'm sure I've done far more than 10 stupid things in my life, but one of them was so massively stupid and did so much damage, all the rest of them fade into background noise by comparison. I married the wrong person first time around, and in retrospect I can see that all the signs were there that this was a mistake, but I was so besotted I ignored them completely. That was 37 years ago, and I still don't understand how I could have let myself get tricked so badly. 18 months into that marriage there was a sudden unilateral policy announcement that there would never be any children. I have five siblings, I grew up in a large and happy family, I couldn't imagine never being anyone's dad. That's one of those Kodak moments engraved on my memory with photographic clarity, I can still see the scene perfectly in my mind, and I remember thinking, "If that's true, we're not going to make it." It was, and we didn't, though the breakdown took another 3 years. But what the Hell was there about that woman that so besotted me and clouded my judgment? I have no clue. I still like her and care about her, but we should have been friends, never lovers. That didn't work at all.
It is so much different when you have your own kids. I was not really impressed with some other people's kids. One of my sons is very intolerant of little kids. (but I'm sure it's other people's kids.)What a shock, wonder why you never discussed it before the marriage, but then, neither did we, and it was my husband who mentioned that we should start a
family, and that was the first time I gave it any thought, (how stupid), I didn't
have any interest in having babies, I didn't even like babies/children, thought
they were annoying little creatures. BUT, when he said 'that', I looked at him
and said," really?" (how stupid again), "OK then, if you really want to"., went
on to have four daughters, and being a mother came so easy to me, I loved every
minute of it. Go figure.
Never, never, never do it (bike walk) with a Malamute.....
I didn't mean turning into my dad was a bad thing, but many of the old phrases my dad used were either in Latin or translated from it. Problem is, I use them sometimes too, in either language, and I don't even speak Latin.
That was the real shocker to me, actually. We *did* discuss it before we were married and I thought it was perfectly clear that there would be children, just not right away. She changed her mind, for reasons that were never clear to me, though I've always had a few suspicions about where that came from. Somewhat ironically, she went on to a professional life as a teacher, for 35 years she's spent most of her days dealing with children and appears to both enjoy it and be very good at it. But as Chev observed, other people's children are different from your own.What a shock, wonder why you never discussed it before the marriage...