That's for sure if you are a single mother on welfare or (assistance as they like to call it) in Ontario with two kids it looks like you get: $1000 plus $100 transportation, plus $750 child tax benefit. ($370 each child).per month...Does the government hide this stuff...how come I can't find anything.Income level is only half the equation, spending level is the other half!
Good luck surviving on that. It's even lower than I thought.
not sure what you are asking here CM...just know that performing costly lapbands on people does not address the issue of why they were morbidly obese in the first place. I see little point in performing the surgery if the root of the problem has not been addressed. And the root of the problem is usually emotional.Now I'm curious, what kind of psychological components that exist for those that do have access to alternatives?
which is a big assumption for inner city because they don'tThat's a choice Sal (assuming that they have access to a grocer)
I am saying you can not expect a 4 to 12 year old to be a little adult go out grocery shopping come home and cook some meals... I am saying you are placing a huge burden on impoverished children who may or may not be coping with a burden already too big for them and then expecting them to rise above it when a regular middle class kid is coddled to death. But if you are poor kid there are just so many challenges placed upon them already. Are some loved and cared for sure...poverty doesn't mean a lack of love just as middle class does not mean a balanced home life either. Same challenges plus poverty or more.C'mon.. Are you saying that some kids are told that they can only turn to fast food outlets or convenience stores?
not a fine line, it's school that will save or lose them but school is a middle class institution so they already have problems adjusting from the get go when you leave a house in the morning with no food in you and sit beside Johnny whose mum has packed his little lunch and snacks, put him in clean clothes and dropped him at the door.A fine line between a hand-up and perpetuating full-on dependency
my guy did come from dire poverty, he made it...but he didn't have drugged out parents, the space between rich and poor was more narrow and you didn't need a grade 12 education to work in a factory...the world has changed.I don't know a single person that hasn't experienced a broad spectrum of economic scenarios all the way from well off to living on Ramen noodles many times a week.
perhaps if leading them by the nose means extra attention and financial support and giving them a desire to achieve. It isn't the money that will ultimately pull them out although they do need that support...but rather it is mentoring that really does it. So yeah, if you want to term mentoring as being led by the nose I'm up with that.You're assuming that people can't learn or adapt without someone leading them by the nose
feed them, clothe them, protect them like it was your kid or my kid...don't punish the kids for the sins of the father.A tragic scenario, but at the extreme risk of sounding heartless, what is society to do?
Short of removing the kids from the home and spaying/neutering the bio parents, how is society to respond?
of course I am, so are you. This is your opinion and my opinion, neither of us are psychologists or sociologists or social workers or likely have crack-addled friends. Neither of us know crap about poverty in today's world. I spend over $100 on fresh food, grain fed chicken and beef without additives per week. I live in an air conditioned condo with a pool and tennis courts. I know nothing about what it is like to be truly poor.You are generalizing,
They do not make a conscious decision. They have no idea about the ways of the world except what they have seen at home. If you ask a kid who is on assistance what he will be doing when he grows up he thinks he is going to be sitting at home, smacking his wife around, and watching TV. Or he will tell you he is going to be a doctor or a lawyer he is just a kid like any other kid.but lets also not forget that decisions were/are made by the mom and dad and there are consequences. To me, it absolutely defies logic how someone can make a conscious decision to have a family when they cannot functionally afford one.
that is so cool, yes there are many people who are kind. At the House of Friendship people drive up and drop off amazing clothes, and food donations...there are kind people, just not enough who understand what it is to be beaten down to where one just can't cope so they sniff that line and say screw the screaming baby in the crib whose diapers are from yesterday.I, on the other hand have seen first-hand a man pay for all the groceries for a young mother standing in line beside him... Many times people coming out of Safeway with a couple extra bags of milk, cheese, bread and fruit and drop it in a strangers lap.
I don't understand it...but I can acknowledge they need help not to be smacked down further and I doubt I would survive that type of existence so kudos to those who do and build a better life for themselves and the next generation.