Nobody has been able yet to convince me what difference it will make in her testimony, it seems to come down to this argument. 'Our country, adapt'.
I really don't feel that's enough of a reason to make a woman give up what she perceives as her modesty.
I suggest it is the other way around.
We are not trying to convince you of anything as far as I can tell. We are merely stating our opinions on the subject for that is what this forum is about.
However, you are definitely trying to convince us that your "feelings" on the subject are the only ones that are correct and acceptable.
Has it occurred to you that we folks in our 60s, and older, grew up in and were adults in a vastly different Canada?
None of these cultural dilemmas existed then. We were all Canadians outside of our homes. Cultural traditions were celebrated within one's home, church or community centre. We Canadians have our own traditions; we have our own culture that developed over the centuries. I did not agree with
"multi-culturalism" when it was foisted upon us. The ensuing difficulties arising today find their genesis in that governmental decision. We didn't have groups of immigrant peoples demanding to have the right to replace our ways with theirs. Folk were grateful to be granted permission to live and thrive in Canada as Canadians. Now it seems popular for newcomers to be excessively demanding.
Some folk have the ridiculous idea that we should just step back and allow Canada to morph into an unrecognizable nation so that immigrants can feel more comfortable here. Well what about us who have worked our butts off and paid our taxes to support immigrants for the past 40+ years? We certainly don't get any extra perks.
Perhaps you can hardly wait for us older people to die off so that you can re -create Canada in exactly the way you "feel" it should be? You will get that wish sooner or later but until then you cannot do whatever you please with Canada's culture. We, and many of our peers, are starting to feel like foreigners in our own city. Good grief!!!!
By the way, I am not a bigot. We have many close friends, for over 30 years, that are Indian Sikhs, Pakistani, Filipinos, Chinese, Fijian, Swedish Icelalndic and so on; hese are treasured friends. When our Sikh friends daughter married here in greater Vancouver we wore traditional Indian clothing and followed all the traditions out of respect for the family.
When we visit another country we obey their laws and cultural mores...we do not force ours on them. That would be quite disrespectful wouldn't it?
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I apologize to the descendants of the aboriginal settlers of this great continent who were established here long before my ancestors knew these lands existed. I neglected to recognize your culture as the foundation of Canada and vital contributer to our way of life as we modern Canadians know it now.