Semper fi Cody Green

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Marines have hearts. It isn't really all that surprising. They are human.The thing is, that the general population probably have a subconscious picture of Marines as being hardened killing machines. Helping people is the prime duty of firefighters, et al.
 

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I'm not a marine, but I like to think that as a soldier I was calculated and very disciplined. That said this brought a tear to my eye, not for the marine actions, but that of a little boy who lost a very long battle with illness. What the marine did was selfless. Soldiers, although enlisted to fight and even kill are not empty vessels that lack humanity. Some, if not most, struggle with the things they have either done or seen. What this young Marine did was offer comfort to a family in the most devastating time of their life. If there is a god, may he bless him and remember that gesture of good will when the time of judgment arrives.
 

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I have seen the same with Fire Fighters, Police, sports teams and so on. The Soldier is no more nor less then any of the others.

Agreed. I was just considering how the story seemed like recruitment propaganda. I guess if one is going to glorify the actions of the USMC like many do it is better to glorify this incident than most of their combat actions.
 

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Agreed. I was just considering how the story seemed like recruitment propaganda. I guess if one is going to glorify the actions of the USMC like many do it is better to glorify this incident than most of their combat actions.

You're pretty GREEN.

Not Marine Green though! Therein lies your jealousy.
 

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Agreed. I was just considering how the story seemed like recruitment propaganda. I guess if one is going to glorify the actions of the USMC like many do it is better to glorify this incident than most of their combat actions.

How about we take those opinions away from this thread - This is about what 1 man did for a family whose son was dying.
 

EagleSmack

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You are too funny! Jealous of the USMC :lol::lol::lol:

Thought the uniform was BLUE :p

One of our uniforms is.

Day to day you wear these...



Or these...

 

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Have you ever considered it represents respect and compassion - something the man in the uniform demonstrates well in his non-ordered deed?


Here's the question in my mind: does it not lower the honor of the accomplishment? All you have to do is have a fatal illness, and there you have it.

Why not award Nobel Peace Prizes to kids who have cancer? After all, the value of that prize is pretty much nil, now that you can get one for 'hope'. Or Olympic gold medals - maybe we should let every kid in the cancer ward have a gold medal.

I have nothing special against the Marine Corps, I just think this whole concept is misguided. It's part of the idea that 'every kid is a winner', and you get rewarded for living, dying, eating, drinking, breathing, whatever.

You should be rewarded for doing something, not just because you have a disease.
 

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Here's the question in my mind: does it not lower the honor of the accomplishment? All you have to do is have a fatal illness, and there you have it.

Why not award Nobel Peace Prizes to kids who have cancer? After all, the value of that prize is pretty much nil, now that you can get one for 'hope'. Or Olympic gold medals - maybe we should let every kid in the cancer ward have a gold medal.

I have nothing special against the Marine Corps, I just think this whole concept is misguided. It's part of the idea that 'every kid is a winner', and you get rewarded for living, dying, eating, drinking, breathing, whatever.

You should be rewarded for doing something, not just because you have a disease.

I guess going thru all the pain and suffering would count under that model would it not? Or dealing with dying at 8 or 10 or 12 that should meet the criteria
 

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From the snopes entry on this story:


Origins: In April 2012, 12-year-old Cody Green, who had been battling leukemia since he was 22 months old, finally succumbed to a fungus that attacked his brain. According to news accounts, Cody had "always admired the strength and courage of the Marines," and so in his final days members of the Marines made him an honorary member of the United States Marine Corps: Members of the Marines decided to step in and do something.

"They decided Cody, with the strength and honor and courage he showed through the whole thing, he should be a Marine," said Cody's father David Snowberger.

Cody was given Marine navigator wings and was made an honorary member of the United States Marine Corps.
One Marine, Sergeant Mark Dolfini, went even further to honor Cody and, during the boy's final night, stood guard outside his hospital door all night long until Cody passed away: Sergeant Mark Dolfini heard of Cody Green's situation through his co-worker, and got in contact with Cody's parents. When the call came that Cody was passing, he took action.

"I got the call from [his father] David about 3:00 or 4:00 that afternoon," said Sgt. Dolfini. "He made it pretty clear to me that he was terminal and he wasn't going to last too much longer. I thought this is something that needs to happen right away."

"When I was driving down there, I had no idea what I was going to say, I had no idea what I was walking into, I didn't know if Cody was conscious," said Sgt. Dolfini. "I didn't know anything. I didn't know what I was walking into whatsoever."

When Sgt. Dolfini arrived, Cody was not awake.

"He was not conscious, " said Sgt. Dolfini. "I mean, if he was, he was not responsive but he was heading to a better place."

Sergeant Dolfini made the decision to stand guard outside Cody's door for as long as Cody was alive, which turned out to be eight straight hours. When a nurse told Sgt. Dolfini Cody's time was limited, Sgt. Dolfini made the choice to say goodbye.

He presented Cody with his navigator wings and let his family be with him in his final moments.

Sergeant Dolfini said leaving Cody and his family was not one of the hardest thing he's ever done. That moment came a week later when he attended Cody's funeral.

"I went and went in front of the casket and saluted Cody," said Sgt. Dolfini. "I turned and before I left I stopped and I turned right to Tracy, Cody's mother. We looked straight into each other's eyes and I saluted her and that was so hard. That was the most difficult thing I've encountered in awhile, but I know for that moment in time that we were locked in each other's gaze, keeping your bearing at that point is a tough thing to do."

"Marines don't do this sort of thing for acclaim," said Sgt. Dolfini. "That's not how we're wired. It's not why we join. We didn't join the Marine Corps. to be rich, we didn't join it for fame, you don't do it for that reason."

"If we all did just something like that once a day or just something small just think of what an incredible legacy that would leave for Cody," said Sgt. Dolfini.

Sergeant Dolfini said he has spoken with Cody's family several times since his funeral. He said they will be friends for life.



After reading constant stories about death, destruction, and horrible acts perpetuated against others, it is nice being able to read a story like this, and what people can do for their fellow humans.
 

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Here's the question in my mind: does it not lower the honor of the accomplishment? All you have to do is have a fatal illness, and there you have it.

Why not award Nobel Peace Prizes to kids who have cancer? After all, the value of that prize is pretty much nil, now that you can get one for 'hope'. Or Olympic gold medals - maybe we should let every kid in the cancer ward have a gold medal.

I have nothing special against the Marine Corps, I just think this whole concept is misguided. It's part of the idea that 'every kid is a winner', and you get rewarded for living, dying, eating, drinking, breathing, whatever.

You should be rewarded for doing something, not just because you have a disease.

So what's the matter with having a little hope and something to smile about?
 

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Indeed, I do. I think it's stupid.

This 'give dying kids everything they want' thing is seriously misguided, in my opinion.

Feel free to disagree, that's your perogative.

Trying to comfort a dying child is misguided.Dying children do not get all of what they want. Some get trips and such as meeting a hockey, baseball player or someone else. Most do not.
 

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Indeed, I do. I think it's stupid.

This 'give dying kids everything they want' thing is seriously misguided, in my opinion.

Feel free to disagree, that's your perogative.

Yeah they should just grow up (oh wait they can't because they're dying) and act like adults (oh wait they'll never see adulthood) because the world is a tough place and as the Rolling Stones said: You can't always get what you want.

Good grief TP give your head a shake.