Do you love me ?

Dexter Sinister

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I am deeply sorry to hear of your troubles china. We've had our differences here, and I often don't understand you, but this one's pretty clear. You were feeling betrayed and wounded, and I can't imagine you deserving that. But alas, we all have our own private demons, and how we grapple with them will forever define who we are to ourselves in ways other people can never know. I've been there, betrayal, separation, and divorce, and some things about it will never be alright, but I'm alright, and so will you be. Some ugly stuff to get through in the meantime, and sometimes it looks endless, but it's not. You can do it, and you'll be a better man for having done it. I wish you well.

All of which is by way of answering your question in the OP, "do you love me," with this: I don't know you personally, but in the abstract, as a suffering fellow human, yes I do.
 

Curiosity

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Dear China

I think you are incredibly brave to write about being hurt by one you love - it is one of the topics humans rarely can bring themselves to speak of until the pain is
over - but you are right up front with it - I hope each passing day it will ease and
your intellect will take you where you belong next in your life of learning.

The pain of hurt and betrayal will pass and the lessons learned will always be remembered.

You are a good man and there is a better place for you - which has not found you yet.....meanwhile stay physically healthy and build up your stamina for the next
round of what we call "lifetimes".... with care and concern....curio
 

TenPenny

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I don't know you, so I certainly don't love you.

Don't let it bring you down
It's only castles burning
Find someone who's turning
And you will come around

The last time my heart was broken, Dylan, Springsteen, CSN&Y, and voluminous quantities of alcohol helped me through it. To each his own, it might not work for you.
 

Johnnny

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me i dont tell people my prblems, as we speak my grandpa is dying i love him very much, but i preffer to wallow by myself

actually now that i think about it im about to cry....... but dont feel sorry for me i dont need no ones ****ing sympathy
 
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talloola

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me i dont tell people my prblems, as we speak my grandpa is dying i love him very much, but i preffer to wallow by myself

actually now that i think about it im about to cry....... but dont feel sorry for me i dont need no ones ****ing sympathy

I'm like you, I stay very quiet, and keep my problems to
myself, I suppose that is a weakness, but it is who we
are, so be it.
be with your grandpa as much as you can, while you can,
I only had one grandparent while I was growing up, and
then he was gone, they are very special, cherish them.
take care.
 

Avro

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Hi I am China ,I have bin hurt tremendously by my Chinese wife ; I am crying when I am writing this letter .I will go back home to Canada ...do you love me.

So you come to this site after leaving my great country and spit at us from afar and want me to love you:?:

Their is only one reaction I had when I read of you predicament....see below.

 

china

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So you come to this site after leaving my great country and spit at us from afar and want me to love you:?:

Their is only one reaction I had when I read of you predicament....see below.


Still love you Avro .
 

china

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Curiosity
Right now you need to know that loving just one person is impossible, and you have enough love in you to experience great happiness, not just at the feet of
one other person but being shared by many others.

Thanks for the words of wisdom Curio...
 

Risus

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Hi I am China ,I have bin hurt tremendously by my Chinese wife ; I am crying when I am writing this letter .I will go back home to Canada ...do you love me.
A couple of questions: How long were you married and how did you meet her?
 

darkbeaver

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I recommend huge quantities cannabis sativa for a full recovery from the terrible misery of love gone wrong. A few weeks of reassembly and you will be ready to saddle up again and swim in the great big sea of feminine delight. Remember when you first look upon your magnificent self upon the morn say, hello handsome lets get stoned, and dance in the nude on the balcony untill the police come.
 

china

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darkbeaver .

db,hahahaha ,the forums are made because of people like you.
love you brother


I recommend huge quantities cannabis sativa for a full recovery from the terrible misery of love gone wrong. A few weeks of reassembly and you will be ready to saddle up again and swim in the great big sea of feminine delight. Remember when you first look upon your magnificent self upon the morn say, hello handsome lets get stoned, and dance in the nude on the balcony untill the police come
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Spade

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Dear China,
Do I love thee? Crikey, you missed my birthday, you didn't drop by at Xmas with a present for me or the missus, and you never write. Plus, you're always too busy Pole dancing to remember your Canadian cousins.
Love thee? Hmmmm...
Regards,
Spade
PS
Gifts of money sent c/o Aether Island General Delivery may persuade me otherwise.
 

Risus

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Risus

I've met her at the Shandong University in Jinan ; we were married almost 7 years. Once we arrived in Australia ,within 3month "

Well, I'll say good luck, but I certainly won't say I love you. Like someone else said, I don't even know you...