Is there differing opinions here is it ok for the girl to take the guy out and pay for the entire evening?
Sure, Durry's Mom pays for him all the time when they go to Chucky Cheese.
Not even in a date situation just because. Even if you are the meat and potato provider would it not be just nice to have that reciprocated?It is alright for sure. In fact sometimes my my grand daughter takes me out to lunch.
I think what you are really asking is a date situation though eh? And yes in today's day
it is fine, the world is not what it once was. Most guys are not crazy about it though
as far as I have heard.
I return though what I have been given. I find that awkward to take. If I am sent a drink I always bounced one back as a thanks. Just an entire night out that you have given to someone else that they are free from obligation to pay thats all. No taking back from the man thing just a courteous ideal. Would you do it?Nothing wrong with it, but until we achieve full gender equality, why not take what you can get? We've had millennia of abuse from men, **** it, I at least want a free drink.
Sorry Durry but that's funny.
my spelling typing sucks lolI return though what I have been given. I find that awkward to take. If I am sent a drink I always bounced one back as a thanks. Just an entire night out that you have given to someone else that they are free from obligation to pay thats all. No taking back from the man thing just a courteous ideal. Would you do it?
But what then of the successful woman?A woman can't pay for the man, It erodes the males ego and establishes doubt about the masculinity of the man. It is a tricky test. You are to insist to pay. This determines your desirability quotient by reenforcing your suitability as a bread winner and manstud. The sucessful gentleman always pays. Don't be fooled by tricky woman questions.
I return though what I have been given. I find that awkward to take. If I am sent a drink I always bounced one back as a thanks. Just an entire night out that you have given to someone else that they are free from obligation to pay thats all. No taking back from the man thing just a courteous ideal. Would you do it?
my spelling typing sucks lol
But what then of the successful woman?
why would you not be sure of the guy?Absolutely nothing at all- but I'm not sure about the gentleman that would let it happen. :lol:
and your definition ofa manstud is?Isn't the acquisition of the prime ego enhanced man thee determining factor of the successful woman?
and your definition of a manstud is?
and your definition of a manstud is?
why would you not be sure?
why would you not be sure of the guy?
More than likely because I was born in the 1940s, but then I guess in those days women didn't work or at least weren't getting wages comparable to men.
No kidding saying women did not work they were underpaid yes. An at home mom is just as full time work with little appreciation having been taken for what they were doing. Ouch.I hope your wife who never does or did any work isn't reading this thread JLM.
I hope your wife who never does or did any work isn't reading this thread JLM.
Burgers? you should be going out with whomever Dury is and his Mom to Chucky Cheese thenIt's impossible for a man to say since the definition is in the eye of the beholding woman. But I'm sure I wouldn't want to fall short of unspoken expectations by the mistake of not coughing up for the burgers. It's just to risky for the prospective manstud.
Ahhhhhh quick save outta the frying pan nice one LolMe bad- I should have said "outside the home"- (actually my wife did for about 6 years)
AnotherMother Ahhhhhh quick save outta the frying pan nice one Lol[/QUOTE said:Yeah, that was pretty stupid- people tend to take you literally nowadays. :lol: