Everyone pays taxes. And everyone receives benefits. I'm more than willing to discuss the distribution of burdens and benefits, and whether this or that program, either in concept or as executed, is a good way to achieve its aim, or whether that aim is worth achieving. What I have relatively little patience with is the constant carping about who gives what and who gets what, usually informed by inaccurate or deliberately false sets of facts.I'm from Massachusetts... I pay a lot in taxes in both state and federal and local. So those roads, sewers, cops and firefighters, military etc. is not free stuff given to me. I pay for them as do many taxpayers. I pay for my own food, phone, housing, etc. I've been paying since I've been able to work at 16.
So don't tell me the road I drive on (etc) is free and a gift to me... an entitlement.
I'm also willing to talk about taxation. I favor a flat tax for all legal persons, on all income however derived, somewhere in the neighbourhood of 15%, give or take a couple percent.