Or a few politicians I've seen mentioned....
Once you're touched, you stand alone to face the bitter fight.
Or a few politicians I've seen mentioned....
Tracy, I don't want to belittle the terrific job you do. Indeed, my first daughter in part owes her life to dedicated people as yourself. The thing is, it is a task of your profession to remain emotionally distant from your charges. The life of a parent is complicated by love. Compassion, ethics, morals and Law are a terribly tough mat to untangle. Though Tracy Latimer's pain may have been intermittent, that time she was in pain must have been an eternity to both her and her parents. We can't begin to imagine the knot of mixed feelings - guilt and joy, angst and relief - that tore and still tears through the Latimer family. Robert's own wife - Tracy's mother - hasn't found him guilty of any misdeed to Tracy. What gives us the right to judge?
Woof!
The same judgment that's made when we decide to free an oppressed people and accept the terrible costs of that decision. Can we know how Tracy felt about this option (with sufficent clarity of mind to differentiate and weigh alternatives?) or that people who will die for our belief in their freedom at our hands might feel?
For a child capable of experiencing happyness, capable of smiling at her parents, capable of breathing on her own and eating without medical intervention, our society says we have to err on the side of giving her a chance to live rather than kill her.
If you think we're able to remain emotionally distant, you really don't understand our work. That's something docs are taught I think:lol:. It's true that we don't love those babies like their parents do. But, I've also worked with a lot of parents who distance themselves emotionally (they won't call or visit for weeks or months). It's a self defense mechanism and I don't judge them for it. I suspect Robert Latimer did it. His daughter had been living in a group home for about 3 months before he brought her home and killed her. He decided to kill her almost 2 weeks before he actually did it. The only way he could have done that was to separate himself from her a little emotionally IMO. He didn't even stay with her when she died. He tried to cover up what happened afterwards. Those to me are the actions of someone who wasn't overwraught with emotions.
I can't imagine what it would be like to watch my own child live a disabled life. But, other parents do it and don't kill their kids. Stress doesn't excuse murder completely, it only mitigates the punishment for the crime. I don't have any right to judge Robert Latimer. The legal system and any higher power he believes in will do that. All I have the right to is my opinion on what's right and what's wrong, just like everybody else. In this case, the legal system agrees with me. Sometimes it doesn't.
Somehow, these escaped the TV news....
Woof!
Ahem, err on the side of giving her a chance? I'm beside myself in thinking that it could possibly be an "error" to give someone the chance to live. Your choice of words is poor to say the least. You suggest that allowing someone to pursue life may be an error while killing her would certainly be proper. :roll:
These all go a ways in explaining how I can feel sorry for Robert Latimer, but I don't see him as a completely blameless martyr.
Latimer, by every legal standard, was guilty of First Degree Murder of his own daughter. He planned and carried out the execution of his daughter, Tracy, because she was INCONVENIENT. This was never a case of 'dying with dignity', since that only involves cases of assisted suicide of an adult. This was the malicious destruction of a human life, and Robert Latimer should have received the maximum under Canadian Law, which is a 25 years before eligibility for parole. There is absolutely NO difference between what he did and what Josef Mengele did at Aushwitz, by determining by his own standards, whose life was worth living, and whose life should be taken as being a 'useless eater'.
That is absolute horse ****!quoting Coldstream
There is absolutely NO difference between what he did and what Josef Mengele did at Aushwitz, by determining by his own standards, whose life was worth living, and whose life should be taken as being a 'useless eater'.
Latimer, by every legal standard, was guilty of First Degree Murder of his own daughter. He planned and carried out the execution of his daughter, Tracy, because she was INCONVENIENT. This was never a case of 'dying with dignity', since that only involves cases of assisted suicide of an adult. This was the malicious destruction of a human life, and Robert Latimer should have received the maximum under Canadian Law, which is a 25 years before eligibility for parole. There is absolutely NO difference between what he did and what Josef Mengele did at Aushwitz, by determining by his own standards, whose life was worth living, and whose life should be taken as being a 'useless eater'.