How Feminism Destroys Femininity in Women and Love

damngrumpy

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Why the hell should women just submit to the guy who is the king of everything?
I like women who step up to the plate and say wait a minute buster. I taught my
daughters to stand up for themselves and don't allow yourself to be controlled or
forced to submit to being dominated by an idiot.
Happiness in not having a lap dog for a wife. That is a recipe for a disaster in the
long run. Women should be fair granted, but at the same time they should of course
demand equal rights and an equal say in their personal and families future.
Feminism destroys femininity? Guess again it actually enhances it. The problem
is self centered, insecure men who don't know how to cope with a changing world
so the best thing to do is blame someone else for the shortcomings of the insecure.
Sorry no sympathy here. Go look at the Muslim world, there the men crave all the
power because they are afraid it women achieved equal rights, they would be totally
inadequate.
 

petros

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Why the hell should women just submit to the guy who is the king of everything?

I like women who step up to the plate and say wait a minute buster. I taught my
daughters to stand up for themselves and don't allow yourself to be controlled or
forced to submit to being dominated by an idiot.
Who else would marry a chick who thinks she's a princess?
 

hunboldt

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.....what a man .....hahahaahaaah!

Wasn't PET in his late 70s...80s when he had his daughter ....?


Apparently the male spermatoza, like fine cognac, only reaches its full power and majesty after the age of 75....
 

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I don't think that women want equality, they want a double standard. To me this is what feminism/libbers mean.
I for one believe in equality for both sexes, and will not give to any cancer charities that target for just women.
I am my partners equal in every way. I also like to do things for him. I do believe that there are some things that are for men to do, and some things that are for women to do. I love to cook for him, make him lunch, and take care of him, because he does it for me. He does the man things, like take care of the car, the fixing of things around home, car, etc. I like being a woman, and have no desire to compete with my man, or any man. I have no need to prove I can do anything a man can do. I am secure in my femininity.
 

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Just being juvenile when you get caught saying something stupid saying (I was just joking) can get you out of it huh?

Or people don't know me and take me out of context.

Ya humour can be juvenile.

What can I say. I'm young at hart. You should try it sometime crabby cakes.
 

hunboldt

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I don't think that women want equality, they want a double standard. To me this is what feminism/libbers mean.
I for one believe in equality for both sexes, and will not give to any cancer charities that target for just women.
I am my partners equal in every way. I also like to do things for him. I do believe that there are some things that are for men to do, and some things that are for women to do. I love to cook for him, make him lunch, and take care of him, because he does it for me. He does the man things, like take care of the car, the fixing of things around home, car, etc. I like being a woman, and have no desire to compete with my man, or any man. I have no need to prove I can do anything a man can do. I am secure in my femininity.


thank you .
You have raided an essential point, - we are structuring a society in which the synthesis of couples no longer conveys benefits- and the cost has been huge.
 

karrie

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I don't think that women want equality, they want a double standard. To me this is what feminism/libbers mean.
I for one believe in equality for both sexes, and will not give to any cancer charities that target for just women.
I am my partners equal in every way. I also like to do things for him. I do believe that there are some things that are for men to do, and some things that are for women to do. I love to cook for him, make him lunch, and take care of him, because he does it for me. He does the man things, like take care of the car, the fixing of things around home, car, etc. I like being a woman, and have no desire to compete with my man, or any man. I have no need to prove I can do anything a man can do. I am secure in my femininity.

I'm like you... I have no qualms about letting my hubby take care of the 'blue jobs'.

But, I also just smile when his niece, the welder, jumps in to do them too.

Personal freedom to simply be who we are, without someone else, or some single attribute of ourselves, dictating how we HAVE to behave, is the height of humanism.

That's where I part ways with feminism... too often it tries to control male behaviour, rather than simply seek freedom to be an individual.
 

hunboldt

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Around 70ish. But the mother wasnt 17. She was well into adulthood and had her own thing going on work wise.

My great grandfather was 70 when my grandfather was born. There was a 30 year age gap between him and his wife. He was actually older than his mother in law by a year or two I think. So relationships with huge age gaps dont bother me much. If they didnt happen I never would have been born.

Still, quoting Cato is an odd choice. Women were barely above slaves in his time and society.


Thee art causing me to weep with Nostalgia for the grande ol;d days of the Empire...
 

petros

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Too much goddam TV.

Is it just urban women who have this "I can do anything" complex?

Rural women keep up with the men just fine within their physical capabilities and don't have some silly belief that we're having more fun than they are.
 

karrie

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Too much goddam TV.

Is it just urban women who have this "I can do anything" complex?

Rural women keep up with the men just fine within their physical capabilities and don't have some silly belief that we're having more fun than they are.


Perhaps? All I know is I didn't mind pounding staples for fencing last weekend, but be damned if I was gonna be the one hauling the fence posts. I didn't need a sliver. Sheesh! ;)
 

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Quote: Originally Posted by china
It's a form of mind control, probably set up by the Global Elite, or New World Order, as the conspiracy movement calls them, to divide and conquer us. It's just another way they use to set us against each other, so that we don't unite and rise up against the real enemy, which are the Global Elite who are running the show. Aaron Russo, in an interview with Alex Jones, revealed that Nick Rockefeller of the infamous Rockefeller dynasty, told him that the Rockefeller Foundation created and funded the feminist movement, for instance..

And credibility drops to zero right there.

If you review the historical tomes of state crisis you will be surprised to find exactly the same divisive social movements and conditions prevailed in most of the doomed nations. There is little doubt as to the gold and silver levers used to pry people apart to become slave to the internationalists. Divide and conquer is the rule of warfare and human relations and social cohesion have always been the soft underbelly where the enemy concentrates. Today there is no difference except the speed of communication of the eternal battle with and against human nature. Sometimes you can be very silly especially when you use words like credibility.
 

petros

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Perhaps? All I know is I didn't mind pounding staples for fencing last weekend, but be damned if I was gonna be the one hauling the fence posts. I didn't need a sliver. Sheesh! ;)
I admire that in you. Have you ever considered instructing a "Give your head a shake" course for women down at the Community College?

If you got a sliver, who would bring out sammages on the quad?
 

hunboldt

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What is it that I'm barging about ?



Well , you must have hangups .


It all depends what they're doing behind the closed doors .......(smile) .





What the f...k am I bragging about?

Relax. You have just run into 'internet over reaction', which the site is experiencing an slight contagion of lately...


Oh yes, 17 year old girls marry 82 year old men out of choice ALL the time. Just like decrepit old white men who travel abroad to marry hot young Asian women are accepted as suitors because the women love them for their looks.


Karrie dear- the marriage took place in the second century B.C.

And even then It was regarded as 'an oddity'.

Me thinks you are
'overreacting' to my posts..lately...



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karrie

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I admire that in you. Have you ever considered instructing a "Give your head a shake" course for women down at the Community College?

If you got a sliver, who would bring out sammages on the quad?

Uhm, my guy friend who does the cooking? lol.

The only women I would dare tell to give their heads a shake are the ones trying to be something they're not. But, I have a couple girlfriends who could toss fence posts around like toothpicks, and I wouldn't tell them not to by any means.

Karrie dear- the marriage took place in the second century B.C.

And even then It was regarded as 'an oddity'.

Me thinks you are
'overreacting' to my posts..lately...



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perhaps muffin, if you'd read the forum policy, you would know that dual accounts are not allowed on this forum. So either, you're breaking the rules, or you're not china at all, and you're 'overreacting' to something that wasn't even directed at you, hmmmm?
 

petros

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Uhm, my guy friend who does the cooking? lol.

The only women I would dare tell to give their heads a shake are the ones trying to be something they're not..
Are they made with love?

Those are the types I'm referring to.

Something tells me that if some of them gave their heads a shake it would only do more damage.
 

karrie

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Are they made with love?

Those are the types I'm referring to.

Something tells me that if some of them gave their heads a shake it would only do more damage.

lol, hmmm.... made with love, well, there are SO many ways to take that I don't know what I should answer!

And yeah, we've had friends come out to the acreage and try to jump in and help with stuff, and me tell them they're not allowed. "ack, that's sexist!". "No, actually, it's office-worker'ist. You're going to get yourself hurt."
 

petros

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I get the "I'll help on the farm it can't be that hard" offer all the time. They usually end up napping or have had enough at around noon after the first 8 hours.

BTW I never intended the sammage question to be a loaded question.