"I am so full of shit, eh?" Try learning something new, every once in a while. Maybe out in the boondocks but around here it is 80%-20% and there are several of us men, locally, in our sixties because the young men are not to be found. This is a rich place full of "Type A s" and the men are too busy or too full of their own magnificence to help out with youngsters. They typify the spreading greed of our culture.
You should work hard to overcome your "surface thinking".