Umm...I put a line in there 'that's my opinion'. There's a reason I put that line in there. 'That's my opinion' means that the foregoing few lines are my opinion. They are not concrete verifiable facts. They are my opinion.
Do I need to clarify it for you?
My opinion is exactly same as yours. The dying man or anyone dying is probably thinking very much
of other people in his family who have died before him, and he is on his way there too, it is just common
sense and what I would think many people think when they are dying.
I am not at the point of dying, but I have thought many times about my mother, who has been gone now for
ten years, and it gives me comfort to know that when I die, I can do it with more grace and acceptance
because she did, BUT that has nothing to do with joining her, or her coming back, or me coming back, it
is just a normal family thought, without imagination getting tangled up amongst the thought.
The word imagination has not been mentioned here, and it is the one 'wonderful' and 'vivid' ability we all
have in our makeup, and some use it much more than others, hence the very interesting and successful movies
about past lives and other such fantasies.
Until we actually see proof of any afterlife or previous lives, we can comfortably know there are none, as
if there were, it would be very apparant, and not 'just' people picking up on what other people thought they
saw in this life or others lives, but they have no proof they actually did.
So the proof is on those who believe those things, because they have never shown themselves here to prove
anything to the rest of us.
That is my opinion --------