I don't believe in destiny at all.
Decisions we consciously make, put us in different places at different times, and different decisions
would have put us somewhere else.
Those decisions were invented by us, or suggestions by someone else whom we communicated with.
Accidents put us in places we haven't decided upon before hand, and the accidents were usually caused
by decisions by others, or ourselves, mistakes, or natural events of the earth.
My long ago deceased mother-in-law, born in rome, italy, and very religious, believed absolutely
everything we do, is decided by god, she was happy living with those thoughts, and died holding
tightly to a cross around her neck.
We decide what to believe, or we just follow along from what we were taught, never giving it much
deep thought at all, but it is still a decision by us.
If I get into my car, and decide to trick destiny, and drive around in circles, then straight, then
go somewhere I wasn't planning to go, then turn off the engine and have a nap, then drive around in
circles again, was that actually planned by some lunatic floating around in space, or sitting on a
cloud, nope, it was me having some fun, just to tell people I don't believe in destiny, which I don't.