you're wrong.
There are many many people who've had to pull themselves up and have not gotten very far just like there are many people who've had life handed to them on a silver platter and have succeeded beyond measure.
To say one way is good for all is short sighted and illogical.
Why would you concentrate your energy and attention and waiste your time on the things that you have no control over?
In the end people who work harder will have more success then people who whined on the side lines all their life's refusing to participate in the system.