I agree. She was 17 not 11.OK we're talking 17 not 8. There's a bit of a difference there. Specifically the development of secondary sexual characteristics such as menstruation, breasts and hips. Women don't just magically inherit those things on their 18th birthday.
I'm not defending it. I am a student of human nature, not a judge of it. And it has been my observation that men like youth and women like power. Maybe younger women have a better chance of successful child rearing, or a capable of having more children than older women? Maybe women are more likely to successfully look after their first child than future ones.
I think many things go on in the human brain related to sex for humans...it's ego driven etc...when I was young I would witness old men make comments about or flirt with young women and their wives would become angry and call them stupid old fools..and now that I am older I get it...young girls may respond to the flattery but in their little minds they also know their bodies give them power in many ways and I think there's a certain type of male who is completely oblivious to that...they think they are different than other wrinkled up old men...they have something special...really with that age difference they don't
I disagree...It's not disgusting to find a 16 or 17 year old attractive. It is disgusting to act on it because it indicates poor judgement.It is disgusting to find a 16 or 17 attractive.
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I find it quite interesting that he was away vacationing with Fergie and that she defends him. She did not have to do that. She could have remained quiet. When an ex is quite willing to publicly defend it indicates to me one of a few things...she is responding solely for her daughter which will back fire if proven wrong OR they had a mature and non savage split up. That's unusual but does happen...many ex's would take the opportunity to knife him...either she has unusual integrity OR he deserves to be defended because he is a decent human being.