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No. It usually isn't worth the effort. I am never ever going to change my opinion on several things:

  • George Bush was, is and always will be one of the biggest morons to walk upon the face of the earth. He is worse than Ebola.
  • I will never, ever understand nor do I wish to the minds of those that support him
  • I will never, ever, ever understand, condone or support the Republican party. They are akin to Satan from a social perspective.
  • I do not support guns in the hands of those with an average or below average IQ
  • I do not support nor condone the killing of another human being except if they are attempting to kill another human being
  • I do not support nor condone leaving children to suppurate in the pus and carnage of parents who are addicted or abusive. I don't care how broke society is... we need to help these children even if it means we have to give up what we have worked so hard to acquire.
Now with that said, do you actually think that by arguing with me on any of the issues above someone is going to change my mind?
No. They are not.

You know this. So do you think others on here who know me know this? Yes.

Is there any point in them arguing with me...no, not unless they are wondering, contemplating or care why I think thus. Chances are if they do not agree with the above stance there is little point in me arguing with them.They are as entrenched as I am.


UNLESS


it's maybe me and someone like CM... we keep it civil although a bit hot now and then...why do I engage him? Well because he can keep it civil... why do we bother...maybe to ensure that we have not in fact changed our minds.


When someone gets rude or personal, I'm done. CM has never done that. Neither have quite a few others. Thus I actually do want to hear their views even though they may be polar opposite to mine.


Otherwise I get a red... They aren't stupid, they just differ in their opinion...they know it...they remind me and keep going.

No problem.


Yeah, there's one or two things you have to be rigid on like harming innocent people or children, but the rest of your contentions aren't necessarily carved in stone. Bush can be educated. I agree with you on the Republicans but I feel exactly the same about the Democrats! They are all politicians, it's like which is better pumpkin pie or raisin pie?
 

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No. It usually isn't worth the effort. I am never ever going to change my opinion on several things:

Quite a list. Let's take 'em one at a time:


Not really. He was about a mid-rank U.S. president (I'm assuming you're talking about W. H.W. was pretty good.)


He did some good things, some bad things. Afghanistan was politically necessary. Any President would have done the same, and I'd point out that NATO, including Canada, joined in the party. Iraq, not so much, but hardly our first foolish war. It should also be noted that the majority of the Democrats in Congress supported the Iraq War. Finally, remember that a large part of what got Bush elected was Clinton's behaviour in office.


How so? Exactly what do you think the Republican Party stands for? I'll hit the highlights: strong military, limiting welfare to those who truly need it, control of immigration, a balanced budget, low taxes, shifting power to the states where possible, anti-abortion.

Don't confuse the wackaloons for the party. They aren't, any more than the die-hard super-lefties are the Democratic Party.


IQ has little or nothing to do with it. Most of our mass murderers were of average-to-superior IQ.

Now a question back to you. Given that the large majority of the U.S. population consistently supports gun ownership in poll after poll after poll, how do you propose to do away with them? Particularly the 250,000 guns in private hands today?


Many Americans agree. As it happens, I don't. I think people who have proven themselves a danger to others should be sent back to the factory as defective.


I don't think anybody does. But the hard part is the borderline cases.



I don't know. Some of them differ in opinion AND are stupid. The two ain't mutually exclusive.


Good well written post (I don't have the patience for as much detail) I've found if you never change your mind you don't "grow". I don't very often just jump right over to the other person's opinion but I do weigh their opinion and sometimes I modify mine a little.
 

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No. It usually isn't worth the effort. I am never ever going to change my opinion on several things:

Quite a list. Let's take 'em one at a time:


Not really. He was about a mid-rank U.S. president (I'm assuming you're talking about W. H.W. was pretty good.)


He did some good things, some bad things. Afghanistan was politically necessary. Any President would have done the same, and I'd point out that NATO, including Canada, joined in the party. Iraq, not so much, but hardly our first foolish war. It should also be noted that the majority of the Democrats in Congress supported the Iraq War. Finally, remember that a large part of what got Bush elected was Clinton's behaviour in office.
My opinion on Bush is irrational because it is based upon feeling. I just hate the man. I don't know what he did that was good, I can't see it...but everything about him makes me cringe. Maybe I'm just like him...they say we often are repulsed by those most like ourselves since it is so easy to see the flaws. I don't think so, but I don't discount the possibility. I have argued this one with my guy for over a decade. He tells me my dislike and disdain are irrational. I know this, but still just seeing a picture of him reminds me of some dismal mental incompetent with strings attached to their limbs . Viscerally he makes me want to throw up. Clinton's behaviour got him elected how? Because some kid sucked him off? Explain that.


How so? Exactly what do you think the Republican Party stands for? I'll hit the highlights: strong military, limiting welfare to those who truly need it, control of immigration, a balanced budget, low taxes, shifting power to the states where possible, anti-abortion.
Strong military I don't have a problem with that. I wish it weren't needed but there is a need to have the ability and capability to defend oneself. I do have a problem with using it to take what one wants.

Limiting welfare to those who truly need it.
I hate....need. I know people want to label those that need as lazy and undeserving. That is just a way of justifying not helping. "I would help, if they deserved it". that is so limited... seldom do they understand others or the psychology of the situation so how can they understand need. They carry their own baggage... they do not wish to understand need...because maybe it's contagious.

Yes there are some who are lazy or greedy or wish to take advantage, but if there are kids involved, the kids should "get what is required to help them survive." But even when it is a case of willful laziness, if I have more food in my cupboard than I could ever eat and another has need... I can not understand the desire not to just give it. I will never understand that desire to withhold help. I also think that others do not wish to understand the human condition without placing blame.

Don't confuse the wackaloons for the party. They aren't, any more than the die-hard super-lefties are the Democratic Party.
It is true, what you say here. I see the Republicans as anti-people. The die hard lefties are anti people too. I see the little guy who supports them as not understanding that he is the little guy and Goliath would squash him too if needed even though he supports Goliath. I have been accused of supporting the underdog. I am guilty.

IQ has little or nothing to do with it. Most of our mass murderers were of average-to-superior IQ.
True. But all these little guys think they are cowboys. That's okay when one has their health, their strength and their mental capabilities (limited or not). What most do not understand is, these will not last. They will wane and they will weaken and regardless of the guns they possess only the goodness of those with strength will save them. Why don't people get that. If everyone had everyone's best interest at heart they wouldn't need a gun closet?

Now a question back to you. Given that the large majority of the U.S. population consistently supports gun ownership in poll after poll after poll, how do you propose to do away with them? Particularly the 250,000 guns in private hands today?
Only when they understand that it is not in their best interest, nor will it actually keep them alive longer than their strength lasts, only when they wish the best for others will they be able to trust that others wish the best for them. So..............never. It's a mind set. It will take generations to change.


Many Americans agree. As it happens, I don't. I think people who have proven themselves a danger to others should be sent back to the factory as defective.
If we were there: if we could actually know without a shadow of a doubt then maybe. I still think to condone it, does something to our soul, our being, it lessens us. And in the end, we only have that.

I don't think anybody does. But the hard part is the borderline cases.
What borderline cases?


I don't know. Some of them differ in opinion AND are stupid. The two ain't mutually exclusive.
Point taken. Stupid doesn't bother me as much as willful ignorance.

Yeah, there's one or two things you have to be rigid on like harming innocent people or children, but the rest of your contentions aren't necessarily carved in stone. Bush can be educated. I agree with you on the Republicans but I feel exactly the same about the Democrats! They are all politicians, it's like which is better pumpkin pie or raisin pie?
for me, they are carved in stone... for you, not. Bush led their country to disaster... educate him all you want...it's too late.

I see the Republicans as anti people, pro profit at the expense of anyone who gets in their way including their own.
 
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Tecumsehsbones

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My opinion on Bush is irrational because it is based upon feeling. I just hate the man. I don't know what he did that was good, I can't see it...but everything about him makes me cringe. Maybe I'm just like him...they say we often are repulsed by those most like ourselves since it is so easy to see the flaws. I don't think so, but I don't discount the possibility. I have argued this one with my guy for over a decade. He tells me my dislike and disdain are irrational. I know this, but still just seeing a picture of him reminds me of some dismal mental incompetent with strings attached to their limbs . Viscerally he makes me want to throw up. Clinton's behaviour got him elected how? Because some kid sucked him off? Explain that.
Oh, dear. Well, here goes. We start with the fact that I wasn't a big fan of Bush. However, I credit him with what he did right, and I don't blame him for what wasn't his fault.
First, as to his election, blame the American people, not Bush. They were pretty upset about Clinton's adultery, and the fact that he literally did it in the Oval Office. Add to that the fact that Gore ran the second-worst campaign in history (after Romney), and that's how Bush got in. OK, highlights. . .

1. 9/11. Bush provided a lot of highly visible, very strong leadership in the aftermath. He also made a specific point of warning that he would not tolerate vengeance against Muslims in the U.S., and he pushed law enforcement hard to prevent, stop, and punish revenge attacks.

2. Afghanistan. The war started pretty well. There was no real hope of avoiding it, and bombing the crap out of the Taliban was considered by most to be a good idea. If you recall, they weren't very nice people.

3. Iraq. Bush's biggest mistake. No real excuse for it. That's to his blame.

4. The economy. The country was in a mild recession, and he tried to alleviate it with stimulus. He gave money directly to the people. Which was probably better than giving it to the banks. We've seen what happened when we did that.

5. Abortion. Bush took the usual symbolic stand against it, but it's worth noting that while he was President, he did little or nothing about it. He was basically content to let sleeping dogs lie.

6. Social Security (retirement pensions). Bush tried to semi-privatise it. It was actually a pretty fair idea, and at least he had the guts to try to do something about it (the Democrats blocked him). Everyone agrees that Social Security reform is necessary, but nobody else has done anything but talk.

7. The real estate bubble and crash. Not really Bush's fault. For that matter, it was Clinton who signed the repeal of the Glass-Steagall Act into law, which is generally thought to be one of the prime causes of the bubble and crash.

8. The bailout. Bush did what he had to do. Our economy was teetering on the brink. He had to do something, and he had the full support of a Democratic-controlled Congress.


Limiting welfare to those who truly need it.
I hate....need. I know people want to label those that need as lazy and deserving. That is just a way of justifying not helping. "I would help, if they deserved it". that is so limited... seldom do they understand others or the psychology of the situation so how can they understand need. They carry their own baggage... they do not wish to understand need...because maybe it's contagious.

Yes there are some who are lazy or greedy or wish to take advantage, but if there are kids involved, the kids should "get what is required to help them survive." But even when it is a case of willful laziness, if I have more food in my cupboard than I could ever eat and another has need... I can not understand the desire not to just give it. I will never understand that desire to withhold help. I also think that others do not wish to understand the human condition without placing blame.
I mostly agree. Nonetheless, in our economic set-up, you have to work to live. Our welfare system is an incomprehensible mish-mash of programs with phenomenal inefficiencies and endless opportunities for the lazy and dishonest to cheat it. I would love to see a President who had the brains and balls to order a thorough study, a rational overhaul, and the leadership to push it through.

It is true, what you say here. I see the Republicans as anti-people. The die hard lefties are anti people too. I see the little guy who supports them as not understanding that he is the little guy and Goliath would squash him too if needed even though he supports Goliath. I have been accused of supporting the underdog. I am guilty.
The Republicans, in broad sweep, support "traditional values." Trust me, being non-white, unmarried, and not a Father Knows Best type, I've got lots of problems with that. But I also have lots of problems with rewarding laziness, dishonesty, and bad decisions. I don't want to be taken care of, I can take care of myself. Seems to me the Republicans favour allowing and requiring you to take care of yourself, while the Democrats favour allowing and requiring the government to tell you what to do, with less freedom for you to make your own choices.

True. But all these little guys think they are cowboys. That's okay when one has their health, their strength and their mental capabilities (limited or not). What most do not understand is, these will not last. They will wane and they will weaken and regardless of the guns they possess only the goodness of those with strength will save them. Why don't people get that. If everyone had everyone's best interest at heart they wouldn't need a gun closet?

Only when they understand that it is not in their best interest, nor will it actually keep them alive longer than their strength lasts, only when they wish the best for others will they be able to trust that others wish the best for them. So..............never. It's a mind set. It will take generations to change.
Not everyone has everyone's best interests at heart. Never have, never will. Personally, I don't see guns as a huge issue. We have about 11,000 gun homicides per year, and dropping steadily. A total of about 30,000 gun deaths (the others are accidents and suicides). I own guns for a variety of reasons (mostly that I like to hunt and shoot). But here's the question: why should I, a sane and sensible gun owner, be forced to give up my guns because of criminals and fools? If you adopt the philosophy that that which is dangerous in the hands of criminals and fools must be forbidden to all, where does that end?

If we were there: if we could actually know without a shadow of a doubt then maybe. I still think to condone it, does something to our soul, our being, it lessens us. And in the end, we only have that.
I have little patience with people who, having been reared and supposedly civilised by society for two decades, deliberately go out to rape, rob, steal, and kill. As far as I'm concerned, they are not of sufficient value to society, nor likely ever to be, to keep them alive. If it were up to me, I'd include the Wall Street assbags who precipitated the crisis. If the best thing you can do with your life and education is destroy people's lives, society has the right and, to my mind, the duty to put a stop to you.

What borderline cases?
Plenty of abusive and addicted people have reared healthy, functional kids. Like my mother. Was she a good mother? No. She drank too much, f*cked around too much, and wasn't there too often. Would the government have done a better job of rearing me? If my experience at the Indian school is anything to go by, no it wouldn't. At least Mom loved me in her boozy, emotionally damaged, neglectful way. And taking me away from Mom would have meant taking me away from Grandmother, who is completely to credit for whatever I am that's good.


for me, they are carved in stone... for you, not. Bush led their country to disaster... educate him all you want...it's too late.
What disaster? Are Americans staving en masse? Are we involved in a murderous civil war? No, we are rich, comfortable, and well taken care of by world standards. What's the disaster?

I see the Republicans as anti people, pro profit at the expense of anyone who gets in their way including their own.
Hard to be pro people with no money.

As I said, I have plenty of issues with Republicans. I defend them here because you're attacking. Far as I'm concerned, both parties miss the two critical points, which are:

1. What should society provide to its people, and expect of them in return? and

2. How can we most efficiently deliver what we should provide to people?

Nobody's addressing either of those issues.
 

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My opinion on Bush is irrational because it is based upon feeling. I just hate the man. I don't know what he did that was good, I can't see it...but everything about him makes me cringe. Maybe I'm just like him...they say we often are repulsed by those most like ourselves since it is so easy to see the flaws. I don't think so, but I don't discount the possibility. I have argued this one with my guy for over a decade. He tells me my dislike and disdain are irrational. I know this, but still just seeing a picture of him reminds me of some dismal mental incompetent with strings attached to their limbs . Viscerally he makes me want to throw up. Clinton's behaviour got him elected how? Because some kid sucked him off? Explain that.


Completely irrational IMO. You drank the Kool-Aid and drank deeply.


Limiting welfare to those who truly need it.
I hate....need. I know people want to label those that need as lazy and undeserving. That is just a way of justifying not helping. "I would help, if they deserved it". that is so limited... seldom do they understand others or the psychology of the situation so how can they understand need. They carry their own baggage... they do not wish to understand need...because maybe it's contagious.

Yes there are some who are lazy or greedy or wish to take advantage, but if there are kids involved, the kids should "get what is required to help them survive." But even when it is a case of willful laziness, if I have more food in my cupboard than I could ever eat and another has need... I can not understand the desire not to just give it. I will never understand that desire to withhold help. I also think that others do not wish to understand the human condition without placing blame.


Must be nice living in Kitchner Ontario... far removed from it.


Live around my neck of the woods and you'll see daily the abuse and laziness. People working to get by everyday and the people who chose to be a dependent of the state and federal government doing better than they.

It is true, what you say here. I see the Republicans as anti-people. The die hard lefties are anti people too. I see the little guy who supports them as not understanding that he is the little guy and Goliath would squash him too if needed even though he supports Goliath. I have been accused of supporting the underdog. I am guilty.


All Republicans are anti-people.... oh and die hard lefties are too. lol.... yup... too much Kool-Aid my friend.


I see the Republicans as anti people, pro profit at the expense of anyone who gets in their way including their own.


You see what they have conditioned you to see. Without question they are doing very well on the propaganda side.

Nobody's addressing either of those issues.


You are a mystery indeed T-Bones.
 

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Quote: Originally Posted by Tecumsehsbone

Oh, dear. Well, here goes. We start with the fact that I wasn't a big fan of Bush. However, I credit him with what he did right, and I don't blame him for what wasn't his fault.
First, as to his election, blame the American people, not Bush. They were pretty upset about Clinton's adultery, and the fact that he literally did it in the Oval Office. Add to that the fact that Gore ran the second-worst campaign in history (after Romney), and that's how Bush got in. OK, highlights. . .

1. 9/11. Bush provided a lot of highly visible, very strong leadership in the aftermath. He also made a specific point of warning that he would not tolerate vengeance against Muslims in the U.S., and he pushed law enforcement hard to prevent, stop, and punish revenge attacks.

2. Afghanistan. The war started pretty well. There was no real hope of avoiding it, and bombing the crap out of the Taliban was considered by most to be a good idea. If you recall, they weren't very nice people.

3. Iraq. Bush's biggest mistake. No real excuse for it. That's to his blame.

4. The economy. The country was in a mild recession, and he tried to alleviate it with stimulus. He gave money directly to the people. Which was probably better than giving it to the banks. We've seen what happened when we did that.

5. Abortion. Bush took the usual symbolic stand against it, but it's worth noting that while he was President, he did little or nothing about it. He was basically content to let sleeping dogs lie.

6. Social Security (retirement pensions). Bush tried to semi-privatise it. It was actually a pretty fair idea, and at least he had the guts to try to do something about it (the Democrats blocked him). Everyone agrees that Social Security reform is necessary, but nobody else has done anything but talk.

7. The real estate bubble and crash. Not really Bush's fault. For that matter, it was Clinton who signed the repeal of the Glass-Steagall Act into law, which is generally thought to be one of the prime causes of the bubble and crash.

8. The bailout. Bush did what he had to do. Our economy was teetering on the brink. He had to do something, and he had the full support of a Democratic-controlled Congress.
Some awesome points there... I will concede I find it hard to say that I know he is not the total demon I would like to believe he is, so I really appreciate the positive things listed here...in a book I just finished today there is a quote: "no one is the worst thing that they did"... I can see that it applies here.



I mostly agree. Nonetheless, in our economic set-up, you have to work to live. Our welfare system is an incomprehensible mish-mash of programs with phenomenal inefficiencies and endless opportunities for the lazy and dishonest to cheat it. I would love to see a President who had the brains and balls to order a thorough study, a rational overhaul, and the leadership to push it through.
that would be good up here too... it's such a bureaucratic balls up that money that could be used never makes it to where it is most needed...half of the programs with better focus might help more of the people who need.


The Republicans, in broad sweep, support "traditional values." Trust me, being non-white, unmarried, and not a Father Knows Best type, I've got lots of problems with that. But I also have lots of problems with rewarding laziness, dishonesty, and bad decisions. I don't want to be taken care of, I can take care of myself. Seems to me the Republicans favour allowing and requiring you to take care of yourself, while the Democrats favour allowing and requiring the government to tell you what to do, with less freedom for you to make your own choices.
Do the democrats (main stream not support traditional values?) I believe they do. I don't believe people should just sit on their backside and not work, and neither am I in favour of the government just taking care of everyone, it's not about extremes. It needs balance, I do not view the republicans as balanced...even on here...it's always extreme... leftards and left idiots this and left idiots that...how can someone read that and seriously consider what is being presented as sane and balanced...it's pure emotional drivel.


Not everyone has everyone's best interests at heart. Never have, never will.
But a lot of people are good and would have others best interest at heart. And the belief that having an arsenol in one's home make's one safe is beyond ridiculous...

Personally, I don't see guns as a huge issue. We have about 11,000 gun homicides per year, and dropping steadily. A total of about 30,000 gun deaths (the others are accidents and suicides). I own guns for a variety of reasons (mostly that I like to hunt and shoot). But here's the question: why should I, a sane and sensible gun owner, be forced to give up my guns because of criminals and fools? If you adopt the philosophy that that which is dangerous in the hands of criminals and fools must be forbidden to all, where does that end?
It's a mentality, definitely many Americans see it the way you do. Others displayed on FB fancy themselves as Rambo defense in a pinch. They can barely articulate their thoughts...but hey, they have lots of guns and I'm female and white and blonde, they have nothing against me, so yeah I'd be safe around them as long as they didn't have an accident...if I were Mexican or black, I'm not so sure. Black more so, Mexican well... I was not raised with guns, the people in my world do not have hand guns nor feel the need to defend themselves with guns stored within reach. If I had to use one I predict I would. The Zombie apocalypse hasn't happened yet so I'm safe for a bit longer.

I have little patience with people who, having been reared and supposedly civilised by society for two decades, deliberately go out to rape, rob, steal, and kill. As far as I'm concerned, they are not of sufficient value to society, nor likely ever to be, to keep them alive. If it were up to me, I'd include the Wall Street assbags who precipitated the crisis. If the best thing you can do with your life and education is destroy people's lives, society has the right and, to my mind, the duty to put a stop to you.
hm, interesting... no locking them up? no rehabilitation, no hope for change?


Plenty of abusive and addicted people have reared healthy, functional kids. Like my mother. Was she a good mother? No. She drank too much, f*cked around too much, and wasn't there too often. Would the government have done a better job of rearing me? If my experience at the Indian school is anything to go by, no it wouldn't. At least Mom loved me in her boozy, emotionally damaged, neglectful way. And taking me away from Mom would have meant taking me away from Grandmother, who is completely to credit for whatever I am that's good.
kudos to your grandmother, and even your mum who did the best she could for where she was at, and to you because you obviously rose above what could have been a downward spiral....that is a testament to the human spirit that there is always hope, you are living proof of that no?
So others can do it too...even in the worst case scenarios, even maybe those who don't know they can change. Dead is a pretty final solution, with zero chance of change.

What disaster? Are Americans staving en masse? Are we involved in a murderous civil war? No, we are rich, comfortable, and well taken care of by world standards. What's the disaster?
A lot of people lost a lot. It didn't have to be.

Hard to be pro people with no money.
once again, balance

As I said, I have plenty of issues with Republicans. I defend them here because you're attacking. Far as I'm concerned, both parties miss the two critical points, which are:

1. What should society provide to its people, and expect of them in return? and

2. How can we most efficiently deliver what we should provide to people?

Nobody's addressing either of those issues.
Yes, if only...

Completely irrational IMO. You drank the Kool-Aid and drank deeply.





Must be nice living in Kitchner Ontario... far removed from it.


Live around my neck of the woods and you'll see daily the abuse and laziness. People working to get by everyday and the people who chose to be a dependent of the state and federal government doing better than they.




All Republicans are anti-people.... oh and die hard lefties are too. lol.... yup... too much Kool-Aid my friend.





You see what they have conditioned you to see. Without question they are doing very well on the propaganda side.
Have you been conditioned?
 

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Do the democrats (main stream not support traditional values?) I believe they do. I don't believe people should just sit on their backside and not work, and neither am I in favour of the government just taking care of everyone, it's not about extremes. It needs balance, I do not view the republicans as balanced...even on here...it's always extreme... leftards and left idiots this and left idiots that...how can someone read that and seriously consider what is being presented as sane and balanced...it's pure emotional drivel.
It's often the same in reverse. Nazis, racists, Limbaugh listeners, fascists, heartless bastards who want children to starve whilst billionaires prosper, warmongers, &c. &c. The internet promotes extreme opinion.


But a lot of people are good and would have others best interest at heart. And the belief that having an arsenol in one's home make's one safe is beyond ridiculous...

It's a mentality, definitely many Americans see it the way you do. Others displayed on FB fancy themselves as Rambo defense in a pinch. They can barely articulate their thoughts...but hey, they have lots of guns and I'm female and white and blonde, they have nothing against me, so yeah I'd be safe around them as long as they didn't have an accident...if I were Mexican or black, I'm not so sure. Black more so, Mexican well... I was not raised with guns, the people in my world do not have hand guns nor feel the need to defend themselves with guns stored within reach. If I had to use one I predict I would. The Zombie apocalypse hasn't happened yet so I'm safe for a bit longer.
I've lived in gun-free societies (Japan and Germany), and I liked them. If the U.S. banned guns, I wouldn't weep and wail. My only problem is, if you ban them, how the heck do you get rid of the quarter of a BILLION (I misstated the number earlier) guns currently in private hands in the U.S.? And how many people do you end up locking up because they refuse to give up their guns?

As to the knuckleheads, I propose a simple test. When you go to buy a gun, the clerk should be required to put the gun on the counter and say "Put your right hand on the gun and your left hand on your d*ck." If you get it wrong, it either means you don't know right from left, or you don't know your gun from your d*ck. In neither case should you be permitted to own a gun.

hm, interesting... no locking them up? no rehabilitation, no hope for change?
Far less than we have now. For starters, you kill, you die. We can address the other things later.

And if you want to discuss certainty, evidentiary standards, defenses, and suchlike, we'll need a new thread.

I also have some interesting notions on prison reform.


kudos to your grandmother, and even your mum who did the best she could for where she was at, and to you because you obviously rose above what could have been a downward spiral....that is a testament to the human spirit that there is always hope, you are living proof of that no?
So others can do it too...even in the worst case scenarios, even maybe those who don't know they can change. Dead is a pretty final solution, with zero chance of change.
Grandmother is my hero, and I love Mom's memory, despite her flaws and problems. My point was that people who are addicted or abusive (or at least neglectful) can still be effective caregivers. Addiction and abuse (or neglect) are not yes/no things, they are more/less things. If the abuse or addiction threatens the child's life or health, absolutely, remove them. But don't demand that parents be perfect. Getting drunk now and then, or hauling off and hitting a child, while reprehensible, are not necessarily justification for removing the child.

A lot of people lost a lot. It didn't have to be.

once again, balance
My whole point.

Yes, if only...
I respect your passion. I just realise, and I think I've convinced you, that the issues are more nuanced and complex than you think. Also, there's the constant temptation to stereotype people (which I also suffer from) and to judge them by the screamers who get the most coverage in the news.

You're smart, you're sensible, and you're compassionate. I can't see us ever disagreeing to the point we're just yelling past each other. You're good people. Even when we disagree.
 

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It's often the same in reverse. Nazis, racists, Limbaugh listeners, fascists, heartless bastards who want children to starve whilst billionaires prosper, warmongers, &c. &c. The internet promotes extreme opinion.
it is often the same in reverse for sure and what people post on an internet may not reflect the way they live their life especially when faced with an opportunity to help another.




I've lived in gun-free societies (Japan and Germany), and I liked them. If the U.S. banned guns, I wouldn't weep and wail. My only problem is, if you ban them, how the heck do you get rid of the quarter of a BILLION (I misstated the number earlier) guns currently in private hands in the U.S.? And how many people do you end up locking up because they refuse to give up their guns?
agreed you can't go back, it will take generations

As to the knuckleheads, I propose a simple test. When you go to buy a gun, the clerk should be required to put the gun on the counter and say "Put your right hand on the gun and your left hand on your d*ck." If you get it wrong, it either means you don't know right from left, or you don't know your gun from your d*ck. In neither case should you be permitted to own a gun.
lol, I like it.


Far less than we have now. For starters, you kill, you die. We can address the other things later.

And if you want to discuss certainty, evidentiary standards, defenses, and suchlike, we'll need a new thread.

I also have some interesting notions on prison reform.
yeah go for it...I'd like to hear about you notions on prison reform..



Grandmother is my hero, and I love Mom's memory, despite her flaws and problems. My point was that people who are addicted or abusive (or at least neglectful) can still be effective caregivers. Addiction and abuse (or neglect) are not yes/no things, they are more/less things. If the abuse or addiction threatens the child's life or health, absolutely, remove them. But don't demand that parents be perfect. Getting drunk now and then, or hauling off and hitting a child, while reprehensible, are not necessarily justification for removing the child.
I agree with that. Helping a child does not necessarily mean removing the child. Just as it does not mean turning a blind eye.



I respect your passion. I just realise, and I think I've convinced you, that the issues are more nuanced and complex than you think. Also, there's the constant temptation to stereotype people (which I also suffer from) and to judge them by the screamers who get the most coverage in the news.
I agree that they are more nuanced. Also not every Republican is a stereotypical image of we have been discussing. None the less, I will never understand that lean. I especially do not understand it from the average little guy of which I am one.


You're smart, you're sensible, and you're compassionate. I can't see us ever disagreeing to the point we're just yelling past each other. You're good people. Even when we disagree.
well thank you, and back at you... I don't have a problem with disagreeing or discussing it... I have said and hope I will continue to say, I often come to understand a view point when I see it presented. Understanding is the key to most everything. I am not fully entrenched although now that I am no longer in the business world and work on the periphery of the education field, I am returning to my more left leanings...

I know, I know... I can't help it...I want everyone to just sing kumbaya

I still don't like Bush. :p but if I met him, I'd be nice.
 

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  • I do not support guns in the hands of those with an average or below average IQ.
  • I'm going to dare to contradict you on this one, Sal. At what I.Q. would a person be deemed able to use a gun responsibly? I would suggest that it may well be at an I.Q. level considerably below average. I think where gun use abuse comes in it has more to with emotional and temper stability than intelligence level. Would use consider limiting the use of an automobile to those of above average or superior I.Q.? I've found most people who distrust guns are those who either fear them or have never used them.

I see the Republicans as anti people, pro profit at the expense of anyone who gets in their way including their own.


I think Republicans are quite similar to our Conservatives and I certainly don't view them that way- all politicians are in it for themselves to a large degree. But the Democrats are definitely no more "squeaky clean" than the Republicans. Mind you I don't think Nixon did the Republicans any good. Basically they are all tarred with the same brush!
 

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How did a serious discussion with actual thought out arguments break out in a thread like this?


Is there a problem with it? The thread has just gained a little depth, instead of being discussed in general terms Sal has given insight into some of the basis of opinions.