Oh nonsense. You just think I should wait until you assign me a place on your pecking order, and you are resentful that I don't suck up and wait like you probably did. I did not start any unpleasantness, I responded in kind to posters whose responses were challenging. The complaint from the outset has been that I am "too new" to do that.
I think what go poorly worded, mishandled, and misinterpreted, to a very large degree, is that the assertion wasn't that you're too new to be rude. It was that the conclusions you were coming to regarding other posters were flawed, and if you'd stick around and post a while, you'd see why.
I think you've been on a lot of forums, but I don't know that you've been in a community like CC before. Where we bicker, we fight, we toss insults about, and then we discuss our families, our heartbreaks, our triumphs... we come together. Some of us have been posting together on this forum for 5 years or more. Despite strongly disagreeing with one another on just about everything, it doesn't stop us from getting together for coffee or a beer when we find one another in the same neck of the woods. Heck, there have even been times where I've been having a heated debate with a poster on the forum, while in private messages we talk gardening, or travel. That's what people are trying to point out to you. No more, no less. This isn't just a flame forum, no matter how much it has resembled it the last couple days. Stick around, and you'll see.