I realize you have an emotional investment in the military but so do I. Only difference is that they are at the opposite ends of the spectrum. My dad was in WWII. He was an emotionally locked up, prone to violent outbursts, authoritarian Catholic who was incapable of expressing his feelings in any other than negative ways. He was a product of that war, which explains one of the reasons why I am diametrically opposed to war for any reason. I won't get into all the other reasons that I consider war stupid.
That's sad Cliffy, but hardly the only example of the returning Vet.
My Grandfather, a man morally apposed to needless death, murder and the taking of life without extreme justification, voluntarily enlisted, became a Corpman, in both the European and Pacific theater's. He never spoke of the war to us, but in the years since his death, I've met some men who knew him during those dark days. They described a man that not only ran through the fires of hell to give aid to the fallen, no matter what side they were on. But had on a few occasions, lifted his rifle and defended himself and those around him, without so much as a thought of his morality or his life. Not only did he not fall apart from this, he continued to serve well after the end of WWII (LWF), he served in Korea (LWF) as well as being a first responder to all manner of natural disasters and accidents across Canada and the US, for many years to follow, while rising through the ranks.
Not only did he finally leave the Service a stable, albeit functioning alcoholic, Catholic, he had the patience of Job, was active in his community as a volunteer, as a mediator, as a leader and as a roll model.
He is lovingly referred to and remembered to this day, as the "Peacemaker".
The military should only be used for self defense. A warrior's life should be dedicated to the protection of women, children and the elderly. As long as Harpo or other leader insists on using our military for any other purpose, I will remain unapologetically critical.
You're so right. Thank goodness there's no old people, women or kids in Afghanistan, so you can hang on to that thought.