I can buy this in some cases but not all. This doesn't answer for victims of rape/incest: how is it a woman's fault if she is forced into sexual intercourse against her will? Is it your contention that if a woman is raped "she was asking for it"?
How is it just that she is now compelled to carry the result of a crime against her, to term? How can it be right that she is forced to acknowledge and relive the attack on her evertime she looks in a mirror or down at her belly?
YOu make good points Wulfie that can use a little fine tuning. Rape and incest are slightly different in that the act can produce different results, rape can produce a normal health child, whereas incest is liable to produce an idiot. I can't imagine the pain and suffering such an act would cause the mother, especially for the 9 months, she is carrying, but the baby could be adopted out (I understand all the arguments against it). It would require a woman of considerable character to arrive at the right decision.