9 charged with bullying Mass. teen who killed self

critter171

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I'm aware. I have to be honest for a second here and must admit and so will you that everyone has bullied at least one person in their life whether it be a peer or sibling. The problem is when it get's out of hand, we do really care. Otherwise, do you really think anyone would waste their time on an individual that didn't mean anything to you?

I remember Bob in High School who got the loudest cheer during graduation from all of us for going through a school wide bully experience. Total respect was the least we could do for Bob for picking on him for 4 years.

The point is you wouldn't think twice about people you didn't really care for.
those are family problems. i got bullied from another kid across my house. you know the thing though he has fail to pass high school. etc.... his father was murder (longer story) he father was not a great person to even talk to.
 

AnnaG

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I'm aware. I have to be honest for a second here and must admit and so will you that everyone has bullied at least one person in their life whether it be a peer or sibling. The problem is when it get's out of hand, we do really care. Otherwise, do you really think anyone would waste their time on an individual that didn't mean anything to you?
People do that frequently. Politicans do it. They care about people so far as their votes. An assassin cares for his target because it usually means money to him. etc. etc.

The point is you wouldn't think twice about people you didn't really care for.
I wouldn't know. I care for everyone; some a lot less than others. The ones I dislike, I avoid, but that doesn't mean I don't care for them.
 

theconqueror

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Well, that's the Bully blame for her death. Now, we can move onto her own choice to commit suicide which she is the only one guilty of. I know one thing about suicide and that it is a mental disorder which only she is to blame.

Hey, why don't we blame the parents for her death because all we know is we are just pointing fingers when we can pull excuses out of the hat all day long.

Maybe, she didn't get the blue jeans she allways wanted and decided she was fed up with her parents. Parents know they are guilty and automatically start pointing fingers.

I got an idea, lets blame her death on the bullies. Yeah, that was it.
 

AnnaG

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Well, that's the Bully blame for her death. Now, we can move onto her own choice to commit suicide which she is the only one guilty of. I know one thing about suicide and that it is a mental disorder which only she is to blame.
Yeah, no-one forced her into that state where she felt she had no alternative but suicide. :roll:

Hey, why don't we blame the parents for her death because all we know is we are just pointing fingers when we can pull excuses out of the hat all day long.
How old are you? 8?

Maybe, she didn't get the blue jeans she allways wanted and decided she was fed up with her parents. Parents know they are guilty and automatically start pointing fingers.
7?

I got an idea, lets blame her death on the bullies. Yeah, that was it.
Now you're catching on.
 

theconqueror

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Yeah, no-one forced her into that state where she felt she had no alternative but suicide.

If it were possible to blame someone for suicide then i'f be a rich man. I've attempted suicide because my life was threatened and I figured I would rather die at my own hands then a threatning RCMP officer.

Did I get justice? Hell no, they say that's my fault and my own doing and only I am to blame.

Why? Because it's the TRUTH!
 

Risus

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those are family problems. i got bullied from another kid across my house. you know the thing though he has fail to pass high school. etc.... his father was murder (longer story) he father was not a great person to even talk to.
First you blame the school, then you blame the family. Get your story straight.

By the way, you are correct in blaming the family...
 

lone wolf

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Well, that's the Bully blame for her death. Now, we can move onto her own choice to commit suicide which she is the only one guilty of. I know one thing about suicide and that it is a mental disorder which only she is to blame.

Are you firm with that mental disorder? Do you know what frustration will do to a persons's psyche? How about desperation? Is this mental disorder a permanent thing? If it's a disorder, how can you even dare to claim she is to blame for it?
 

critter171

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Well, that's the Bully blame for her death. Now, we can move onto her own choice to commit suicide which she is the only one guilty of. I know one thing about suicide and that it is a mental disorder which only she is to blame.

Hey, why don't we blame the parents for her death because all we know is we are just pointing fingers when we can pull excuses out of the hat all day long.

Maybe, she didn't get the blue jeans she allways wanted and decided she was fed up with her parents. Parents know they are guilty and automatically start pointing fingers.

I got an idea, lets blame her death on the bullies. Yeah, that was it.

Here another great example of a bad "adult" or young "person"

It was a hate crime and her cvili rights were violated, I wish one of her friends try to do more to help. as one said she hide behind her smile. KEY RED FLAG.

I think you need to more study before putting fingers when the fact school fail to do something and it happen in the fing school and these kids know better to be an young adult not a immature child.

though... i guess you haven't grown up yet. are these question to tough for yea?
 

critter171

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If it were possible to blame someone for suicide then i'f be a rich man. I've attempted suicide because my life was threatened and I figured I would rather die at my own hands then a threatning RCMP officer.

Did I get justice? Hell no, they say that's my fault and my own doing and only I am to blame.

Why? Because it's the TRUTH!

Only if you knew the problem with people who think sucidie, no one is blamming the for sudciide there blammign them for A HATE CRIME. just the fact bully is and was part of the factor.

who would want to give you justice? she die cause people throw things harrased her and the best thing to do... to stop the whole pain is kill her/him self. i have a friend who went through suicide and i was afraid she would of done something so i told someone about it. to get her help.
 

shadowshiv

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Well, that's the Bully blame for her death. Now, we can move onto her own choice to commit suicide which she is the only one guilty of. I know one thing about suicide and that it is a mental disorder which only she is to blame.

Hey, why don't we blame the parents for her death because all we know is we are just pointing fingers when we can pull excuses out of the hat all day long.

Maybe, she didn't get the blue jeans she allways wanted and decided she was fed up with her parents. Parents know they are guilty and automatically start pointing fingers.

I got an idea, lets blame her death on the bullies. Yeah, that was it.

The fact that she was raped wouldn't have had anything to do with her committing suicide, would it?:-?
 

Twila

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I sure would like to see a return of "your word is your bond". Words fly fast and free with those spewing them never taking responsibility for them.

This poor girls family. What a horrible horrible thing to have to live through.