Taking shoes off at peoples homes...

SirJosephPorter

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Oh, and Ottawa has it too. I'm french Canadian myself, but being vegan, I'm not into poutine. And Ottawa is still right on the border with Quebec, yet even in Ottawa you still can't buy it just anywhere and still have to look for it a little.

We do get poutine in many places on Ontario (influence of Quebec, I guess). I don't know how authentic that is.
 

SirJosephPorter

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On this point I was being serious. I remember when I was in Vancouver many years ago and some Europeans (we all know how puny their tiny city states are) would ask Canadians how to get to different cities in BC. The Canadians, making referene to cities hundreds of km away, would use terms like only, merely, etc. The Europeans wouldbe asking how many hours to this or that town by bus. And the Canadians would anser, no, it's an overnighter.

The ’tiny’ province of Newfoundland (and many Canadians consider it to be a postage stamp province) has an area three times that of England.
 

shadowshiv

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If someone were to visit my house, I would want them to remove their shoes(as I have light-coloured carpetting). If they wished to bring a pair of slippers to wear, I certainly would allow them to(their feet may get a little chilly in the Winter time, so slippers would be better for them than shoes anyhow).

Besides snow being an issue in Winter, salt from the roads/sidewalks could also be a problem if a little bit got stuck on the bottom of a person's shoe(the shoe itself may be dry, but the salt could still discolour/stain the carpet).

Regarding the statement about hats, I don't understand why people will wear hats in a restaurant. If I wear a hat, I always remove it when I am in a restaurant(or visiting company). LOL! There are no birds to worry about pooping on your head inside(unless Polly gets out of her cage:lol:).;-)
 

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Yeah, I think it's only good manners to offer to remove your shoes when visiting.

When people come to my house, most of them go to take off their shoes anyway, but I don't mind so much as most of my floors are wooden, and easy to keep clean.
 

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Shoes are the most reviled and despised pieces of clothing in the Muslim world. Recall how kids were rubbing their slippers of the tumbled statue of Saddam Hussain? Recall the idiot who hurled his shoes at President Bush?

These idiots and their soulmates should live in a climate where shoes are no so easily disposable.

Having said that, the fact that our customs expect visitors to remove their shoes upon entering our homes should endear Muslims to the Western world. Yet Obama failed to mention it. Would that not have been a "new beginning"?
 

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If someone were to visit my house, I would want them to remove their shoes(as I have light-coloured carpetting). If they wished to bring a pair of slippers to wear, I certainly would allow them to(their feet may get a little chilly in the Winter time, so slippers would be better for them than shoes anyhow).

I agree. If you want your light coloured carpets to stay light, shoes have to be removed at the door. When we lived on Gabriola Island we put twelve inch square ceramic tiles everywhere but the bedrooms as a stab against low maintenance but in Winter those tiles were cold. We kept a few pairs of basic(read cheap) slippers for our guests.
 

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Having said that, the fact that our customs expect visitors to remove their shoes upon entering our homes should endear Muslims to the Western world. Yet Obama failed to mention it. Would that not have been a "new beginning"?


From everything I've seen and heard from American friends and tv, they don't take their shoes off customarily either. Why Obama would mention what Canadians do with their shoes is a side track beyond me. lol.
 

shadowshiv

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I agree. If you want your light coloured carpets to stay light, shoes have to be removed at the door. When we lived on Gabriola Island we put twelve inch square ceramic tiles everywhere but the bedrooms as a stab against low maintenance but in Winter those tiles were cold. We kept a few pairs of basic(read cheap) slippers for our guests.

I should pick up a couple of pairs of cheap slippers. This past Winter was especially chilly and they would be good for any guests to wear.:)
 

YukonJack

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"From everything I've seen and heard from American friends and tv, they don't take their shoes off customarily either. Why Obama would mention what Canadians do with their shoes is a side track beyond me. lol."

Karrie, unlike you, I take my information from personal experience, not from what I heard on saw on TV. I lived in the States from 1997 to 2003.

Americans DO take their shoes off when entering their friends' house. At least those in Ohio do. That is where I lived for six years. May be different in other parts of the United States.
 

L Gilbert

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We have a mud room. It's a little room we used to take off our shoes and whatnot if they were pretty dirty. Now that "someone" has decided it's ok for the dogs to habve free reign, we aren't as fussy about taking shoes off even if they are a bit dirty. We just clean more. lol Going to others' homes, we dismount unless they say not to.
 

karrie

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It's summer here, and the floors are now hardwood (woot woot!), so we really don't worry about shoes in the house.
 

SirJosephPorter

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Shoes are the most reviled and despised pieces of clothing in the Muslim world.

Not only Muslims Yukon, but Hindus, Buddhists, Sikhs etc. as well. I think it is only the Christians who have love affair with the shoes, in the non Christian world, the shoes are always taken off when visiting somebody’s home or a place of worship (temple, mosque, pagoda etc.) Shoes are allowed in offices, stores and other public buildings, but not in private residence or places of worship.
 

kiwi_NZ

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thank you for all your comments, appreciated..

Keep in mind though for people who assume I mean entering someones homes with dirty shoes is not what my original post suggested.

It said "assuming the wearer didn't have dirty shoes" i.e. I was wearing clean shoes.


So I have learned from this thread that it is basically customary to remove shoes automatically when visiting a Canadian home but it's not mandatory.

Good point Les re dogs inside, as I have dogs and any / all my dogs live inside all year round and i wouldn't have it any other way. In fact my dogs are probably more clean and hygienic than most peoples little kiddies (lol)

So if you came to my home which is clean you not only don't have to take your shoes off but you'd be amid my dogs and my dogs love visitors :)

A simple question turned into quite the topic, ha! Hard case :)
 

SirJosephPorter

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Americans DO take their shoes off when entering their friends' house. At least those in Ohio do. That is where I lived for six years. May be different in other parts of the United States.

That is not my experience, Yukon. I lived in USA for seven years, but I rarely saw anybody removing their shoes at the door. I don’t know why this difference between USA and Canada.
 

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I prefer they keep them on so they don't get too cozy and can leave quicker.