[FONT="]Trudey, regarding the E Mail. Many bloggers lead empty lives, with nothing better to do. So they dream up these crazy ideas, magnify in their mind a thousand fold how good the ‘good old days’ were (and I agree with Spade, in many respect they were the horrible old days), then think up of just about everything that is not quite right today, and then come up with E Mails like that.
But one can easily come up with a counter E Mail. Let me try:
School – 1958 vs. 2008.
Scenario: A girl in the twelfth grade expresses to her teacher her desire to become an engineer.
2008 – The teacher lauds her for her ambition, suggests to her names of a few good schools she could apply to and offers to help in any way she can.
1958 – She calls over other teachers, other students, tells them of the stupid idea of the airhead of a girl, who thinks she has intelligence enough to become an engineer. A good laugh is had by all, the girl runs from the scene sobbing. She become a housewife and later is dumped by her husband for a trophy wife.
Scenario: A bully beats up a small, delicate boy to within an inch of his life in the schoolyard. When the teacher comes to investigate, the bully explains that he thinks the boy is a homosexual.
2008 – The bully is charged with hate crime, the boy is given proper medical attention and counseling.
1958 – The teacher cuddles the bully. “Oh, you poor dear, did the pervert make an advance towards you? Well, he got all he deserved.” Teacher leads the bully away, administering a kick to the supposedly homosexual boy in the process.
Teacher honors the bully, the homosexual boy commits suicide.
Scenario: An unmarried teacher becomes pregnant. She gets an abortion (in 1958, she goes to Sweden and gets an abortion). What happens?
2008 – Nothing
1958- She loses her job (of course), is thrown out of her apartment, her family disowns her. She commits suicide.
Scenario: Husband beats his wife senseless.
2008 – She complains to her parents. Her parents counsel her to leave her husband and offer to help her in any way they can so she may do so. Or she seeks a battered women's shelter.
1958 – She does nothing. There are no battered women’s shelters, she cannot count on any sympathy from her parents, they probably would tell her to keep on living with her husband (and they wouldn’t believe her anyway, that her upper middle class, educated, well mannered, polite husband would lay a hand on her). Which is exactly what she does do. She lives a life of misery and abuse. Eventually she is killed by her husband.
I could go on and on. I haven’t even touched things like racial discrimination, residential school abuse etc. There were many things seriously wrong with the society in 1958. Now, you may prefer to live in 1958, I personally prefer to live in 2008. I wouldn’t go back if somebody paid me to do it.
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