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I don't think that it matters what anyone talks to you about, you won't hear anything because you're too busy screaming.
That's not true but believe what you wish.
There are men and women.
And there are intersex, non-binary, gender fluid...
You can be one or the other, or pretend to be one or the other, but there are two.
Except the others.
But TB puts it pretty spot on.