You'll get it. I used to be the meanest person you'd ever want to meet. I just decided one day that i didn't want to be like that anymore. And that was that. Not that I don't have days myself now and then, I just direct the energy elsewhere.
For me Visualisation help I keep a blue bubble around me then I see whatever I need done ex paying ALL the bills and I see it done........and so it is. I mean theres times im so tight I dont have food money but a one day job will pop up and Im covered. I dont care about riches I just need basics and Im happy. So thats what I attract