Sorry to interject, but.
Saw "Water" on CBC's late move last night. Set in 1938 India, it's a commentary on the misery of widows trapped by custom and religion.
Really, that misery was little different from that imposed by today's Islam or not-so-long-ago's Christianity! Religion, must give the gods pains in the butt!
You are wrong, Spade, the misery inflicted on women by Hinduism is by far the worst of the three, Hinduism, Islam and Christianity. Hinduism treats women worse than Islam or Christianity do.
So far I have been exposing the ugly underside of Christianity and Islam (and one religious fanatic from each religion has been helping me). However, I am an equal opportunity basher, so let us not forget Hinduism. A couple of years ago we visited India, so I read extensively about India before we visited there. Plus, I have always been fascinated by the ancient Hindu civilization.
I didn’t see that movie, but you probably saw child brides and child widows (a ten year old girl is married off to an eleven year old boy, if the boy dies by plague or by anything else, the little girl is a widow for life). That was a very ugly part of Indian civilization. The child widow would have to cover her body with one cloth all the time. Her hair was cut, leaving her completely bald. She had to remain bald all her life, to tell the world the fact that she is a widow. She was not allowed to wear normal clothes, jewellery etc. She had to eat the blandest of foods; she was not allowed to eat any spicy foods, pickles etc. (spicy food is the very backbone of Indian cuisine). Remarriage was, of course, out of the question.
Now, believe it or not, but this represented a betterment of women’s condition. Before this period, the custom of suttee was quite prevalent. If the eleven year old boy dies, the ten year old girl would be forcibly put on the burning pyre of the boy (Hindus practice cremation, not burial). Of course she would not go willingly, but had to be dragged kicking and screaming and thrown into the fire.
The British put a stop to that. When the Hindus were forced to let the widows live, they made their life as miserable and as difficult as possible.
So, horrible as Islam and Christianity are from woman’s point of view, Hinduism is even worse.
I think the attitudes of the three religions towards women can be succinctly describes as follows.
In Christianity, husband is the master, wife is the servant.
In Islam, husband is the master and wife is the slave.
In Hinduism, husband is the God and wife is his worshipper.