T-Bones-
You're always so quick to jump to the extreme example of a situation. It really is a shame too, as you seem like a bright fellow otherwise. Take a 'whoa pill' on the histrionics and you might gain a little more cred around here.
And I'm categorically not anti-gay. A member of my wedding party was gay. It has never been an issue in our lifelong friendship.
ROFLMFAO..... riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight...... never heard that before...oh wait, yes I have.
Good friend of my Dad's...a Texan.... informed us that he wasn't racist. He had nothin agin nig gers, and nothing fer em. But he thought everyone should own at least one.
One of the grand masters of the KKK down south informed a Hispanic reporter that he wasn't racist, but that he considered her a mongeral and that he was far superior to her and her kind.
Just because you SAY you aren't a bigot, doesn't make it fact. Your words and actions tell the tale. You sir, have a problem with "Gay's", as does your daughter. Otherwise, this whole thread would have been a non starter.
Here's an example, one of my boys loved the colour pink, in senior high he dyed his hair pink and wore pink shirts to school. Did some of the kids give him a hard time, yup. Did he care what they thought, nope. One of his best friends is gay. Is he gay, not in the least.
The fact that your daughter is concerned that others might think she is gay, tells the story as to how she feels about gay's. The fact that you have not talked to her about this and have gone along with her bigotry tells us what your true feelings are about Gay's. Ashamed doesn't even begin to explain it.