If those numbers are correct Avro then you are correct.
So we have 34 suicides in Iraq during active duty, but isn't that a bit of a narrowed view? Its a high stress situation, if you take such a narrow view of one group, could one not offer an equally narrow view of other segments? I don't have the exact segments, but I know lottery winners have unusually high suicide rates.
But saying 'Soldiers undergoing the most stressful period of their careers" are more likely to commit suicide than the average civilian in everyday situations isn't that big of a surprise.
How do soldier suicides on active duty compare to civilian rates in trying situations? Divorce? Raising a new Child?
How about comparing a soldiers suicide rate in Iraq versus when going through a divorce? If the divorce rate is higher should we forbid soldiers from getting divorced?
Quite frankly, while suicides are very rarely a good thing (and yes sometimes they are, when done rationally and in a lucid state), They are also not something you can reduce to zero anymore than any other aspect of society. The importance is seeing the rates of comparison.