Good story, Ron- tough to read through that without shedding a tear!
I did (Shead a tear or two, that is). My Uncle sent that
to me. Wish I could "Greenie" an Email. :lol:
Good story, Ron- tough to read through that without shedding a tear!
Uhm.....going forward...I found this in my InBox tonight
after I Logged Out'a the Forum, and was about to head
for the shower before bed. Think I'll share it here.
It was titled, "Christmas Eve 1881".
Pa never had much compassion for the lazy or those who squandered their means and then never had enough for
the necessities. But for those who were genuinely in need,
his heart was as big as all outdoors. It was from him that I
learned the greatest joy in life comes from giving, not from
receiving.
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While the anecdotal stuff is unfortunate, it's still beyond the pertinent fact that the cost of living for the average parent is much higher than that for the average senior.
If we're to be "ethical" about this, then we need to give to the people who need it most. I'm sure that for any outliers, you can make a claim for some kind of reimbursement as well even if you are not in the favoured group.
I think one of the biggest problems is the people who are doing the complaining have missed out on many of the experiences that people 30 years their senior struggled through and they missed out on having to "wear the same shoes". Looking backward at it from the tail end of my working days, many of these complainers lacked the work ethic that many of the older generation had. :lol:
Uhm.....going forward...I found this in my InBox tonight
after I Logged Out'a the Forum, and was about to head
for the shower before bed. Think I'll share it here.
It was titled, "Christmas Eve 1881".
Anyway...I sure puts the giving & sharing thing in perspective,
doesn't it?
I think one of the biggest problems is the people who are doing the complaining have missed out on many of the experiences that people 30 years their junior struggle through and they missed out on having to "wear the same shoes". Looking forward at it from the front end of my working days, many of these complainers lacked the work ethic that many of the younger generation have.
I think one of the biggest problems is the people who are doing the complaining have missed out on many of the experiences that people 30 years their senior struggled through and they missed out on having to "wear the same shoes". Looking backward at it from the tail end of my working days, many of these complainers lacked the work ethic that many of the older generation had. :lol:
Work ethic is a subjective matter that is difficult to qualify, but it is also besides the point.
Regardless of what your work ethic is, it won't matter if the cost of living is higher. And the evidence is pretty convincing that the cost of living is much higher for this generation than last.
My grand parents died along time ago but both my parents and my inlaws do, though I'm not quite sure the relevance of that. Why would anybody starting out today want a land line instead of a smart phone?
Did usually refers to past tense. As in 'when your parents or grandparents were 20somethings did they have smartphones?'.
...and the seniors kept voting them back in election after election after election. Why don't you just buck up and start paying your fair share?
The ones doing all the complaining are you and the 40+ year olds. Bunch of whiny, sniveling little "poor me" brats.I think one of the biggest problems is the people who are doing the complaining
The ones doing all the complaining are you and the 40+ year olds. Bunch of whiny, sniveling little "poor me" brats.
The only reason the cost of living is so high is because people today don't know the difference between need and want. We didn't have 5% of the electronic crap people have today, we didn't have designer clothes or live in big houses. Our parents didn't drive us to sporting events, dancing or music lessons. We didn't have a TV in every freakin' room. We didn't eat out at restaurants more than once or twice a year. We didn't have more than one car or a house in the country. We wore hand me down clothes. You guys were spoiled and then you spoiled your own kids even worse and now you are whining about it? Grow a pair!
Work ethic is a subjective matter that is difficult to qualify, but it is also besides the point.
Regardless of what your work ethic is, it won't matter if the cost of living is higher. And the evidence is pretty convincing that the cost of living is much higher for this generation than last.
Did usually refers to past tense. As in 'when your parents or grandparents were 20somethings did they have smartphones?'.
You assume politics was any different from today and there was a real choice of someone who would do things differently across the parlamentary floor?
So your dad was a lazy, selfish prick. Not everybody's was. I have done a lot of volunteering to and on average less than 10% of the people in any give area do. At one time I was on half a dozen committees and it was always the same people who showed up. And I am a Mac techy and I will not have a cell phone, iPhone, an iPod or iPad. I have a land line because I hate phones and I use my answering machine to screen my calls.My father (and his generation) worked his 40 hour week and spent his free time relaxing as the government took care of most of his peripherals. On a slow week, I work 48 hours. In my free time, I volunteer for the local Agricultural Society that owns and operates the hockey rink (since the town couldn't afford to run it any longer). I volunteer for the BoD of the golf course (since the town couldn't afford to run it any longer). I spend countless hours fundraising for the fire department and am the Casino Chairperson. We have raised money to purchase bunker gear, breathing apparatus, and upgrades to trucks (since the town couldn't afford to do it any longer). I volunteer at the school to fund raise for items the school needs (since the school board couldn't afford to do it any longer). I volunteer for the Lions Club doing projects or raising funds for projects such as playgrounds (since the town couldn't afford to do it any longer)
All these things I do in my spare time that my father never did because his generation just borrowed the money to run or build schools, rinks, golf courses, playgrounds and fire departments. Not only did he (and those of his generation) stick their kids and grand kids with the bill but they are the first ones to complain if the school, fire hall, playground or arena isn't up to standard and blame it on the younger generation. And, of course, they expect a discount on their golf membership.
They are THE most selfish generation by a country mile.
How could they have smart phones when smart phones didn't exist? Would they have had them if they existed? Probably. The only people I can see that wouldn't have one are those that are afraid of technology.
The ones doing all the complaining are you and the 40+ year olds. Bunch of whiny, sniveling little "poor me" brats.
The only reason the cost of living is so high is because people today don't know the difference between need and want. We didn't have 5% of the electronic crap people have today, we didn't have designer clothes or live in big houses. Our parents didn't drive us to sporting events, dancing or music lessons. We didn't have a TV in every freakin' room. We didn't eat out at restaurants more than once or twice a year. We didn't have more than one car or a house in the country. We wore hand me down clothes. You guys were spoiled and then you spoiled your own kids even worse and now you are whining about it? Grow a pair!