Hmmm.... Do you know the last three ladies who washed their feet in my life perchance? Narcissistism, bi-polar, MPD - complete with sleletons in the closets and bats in the belfrey.
Why do I attract them? Maybe it's because I listen. Maybe it's because I care. Maybe I was just too damned vulnerable. This big heart is a too-open and convenient landing ground. At least I came ahead from the last one when I actually got nerve enough to take a big risk. The rest is a long involved story.
Wolf
Mmmmmm honey, *lick lips and contemplates* PM me, and if'n you are old enough and
rich with a
really bad cough, .... well.... we could date. Yes siree!
Actually, I worried about it enough that I went to counselling. I mean ... it couldn't be the rest of the world, right? Counsellor scoped out my big failing right away.... Boundaries! I don't set up clear and strong ones. She did like my cutsie-pie little feel-good analogy though:
A wounded heart is like a bird with a broken wing. I can pick it up and take it home. I can feed it and love it. I can make it strong and fix its hurts. When it''s all better, it's time to go, so it poops on me and flys away....
Thanks
Wolf
I love your analogy, it is totally cute but it is sad too in that the bird with a broken wing can sometimes in reality be, a serpent in little wounded birdy feather disguise. It may sound like I am jaded but maybe the bird with the broken wing got the wing break trying to suck the life out of some creature it thought was weaker when........ SURPRISE, it met it's match.
I tell my current partner that he is the luckiest s**t on earth to have met me because he is too loving and giving and sweet for any female but me, me me.........meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...it's all about me honey.

Seriously I love this guy, so if we ever went our separate ways for any reason, I would definitely want to interview any woman who showed an interest in him because as soon as a female opens her sweet little mouth with the siren's song, he gets suckered in. Except with ME of course as I am absolutely the most perfect of woman. *big grin* Just ask me, I'll tell ya.
If we get to know each other well wolf, I will screen for you. Promise.
