I don't know why the Western countries think they can fix the world. We go into these countries with a blind belief that we can fix everything. First of all Britain and the US have past history in Afghanistan which does not encourage the Afghans to welcome with open arms. I agree we needed to go in to remove the Taliban militants (guess how they were able to take over the country in the first place).
Installing a stable democratic government is a nice dream but that is all it is unless the people agree. Democracy comes from the heart and cannot be imposed. The Afghans haven't got the faintest idea what it means except what they see, to them it comes from foreigners and invading armies. A repeat of history of thousand of years of invaders, conquerors, dictators causing death, destruction and cruelty.
We need the soldiers to fight the Talban, no one is disputing this necessity. However we must improve the lives of the people by building basic needs. Simple things that we take for granted like hot and cold running water, irrigation for the fields so that they can grow foodstuff other than poppies.
Alot support the Taliban because they know nothing else, it was the best alternative they had. If we want to change that we have to show them there is another way better than the Taliban. We cannot understand why they support the Taliban even with the cruelty, but it was the only security and safety they had available at the time. After the Russians were kick out there was a vacuum left in their place which allowed warlord infighting with caused more death. Many are afraid to support our troops because of reprisals, but also they believe that when we leave they will pay the price AGAIN.
This war is a vicious circle which will continue for a long time unless, we find a way to convince the Afghans that there is a better way of life. We must prove to them that their country can be safe, secure and prosperous without the Taliban, then they will fight alongside our soldiers to get rid of this cancer in their country.
Some say the Afghans got the government they deserved, I do not agree. How could they get anything different when they did not know better! It is easy to judge but to understand we must put ourselves in their shoes.