Pea,
Its true. Absolutely true.
As stated earlier, even if I provide you with a budget you won't believe it anyway.
In the past you've asked for evidence and when I provide exactly what you want you don't believe it or it isn't from a reliable source or .....
I don't know what to do with this situation because I telling you the God's honest truth regarding my friends and their family situations. I've provided you with websites that show families how to save money which are probably used by these families.
Looks like another deadend. We're now going around in circles, I've given you everything I can. I'm not going to ask my friends for private information that I have no right to ask.